"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do chicks really dig scars?

johnny_depp

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Ive always heard this my whole life either from people saying it or movies I would watch. I have scars all over me, not a million or anything but a few. So do chicks really dig scars? and if so why? I dont get it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think the reason a lot of guys think girls like scars is because scars give a guy stories to tell, when the reality is that girls like a guy who has something to say and is good at saying it. The scar isn't the attractive part; what's attractive is how a guy talks about it.

My man is littered with scars and, honestly, it scares. He had a rough growing up and I don't like evidence that he had to go through that.
 

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What are you gonna do? Start cutting yourself?
 

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It's not just stories. They also demonstrate that a man is active and is a risk-taker.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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g g g unit

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It depends how your scar looks and how you got it. A scar like Tony Montana's would be cool. I don't have any visibly great ones but chicks always seemed to dig it when i had a black eye, why i don't know.
 

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I've got a somewhat faint scar sort of diagonally cutting down the middle of my left eyebrow. I think it looks cool and adds a bit of character to my face. Those kind of scars are cool. Giant scars from accidents, acne scars etc, are not.
 

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I was born two months early, and had to have surgery to take out part of my small intestine. The result is a long scar across my abdomen, and whenever I show it to people they think it's badass (the scar and nice abs make a nice combo). When people ask I usually tell them one of these three stories:

1. I had a scuffle with a rhino
2. I was in a knife fight
3. I was pregnant and had to get a c-section

It's great when I can actually convince people on one of my stories. Just for kicks, I once convinced my little sister that she gave me my scar by scratching me, and made her feel pretty guilty about it for a few days. It was pretty funny.
 

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Master Bates said:
Giant scars from accidents, acne scars etc, are not.
Lmao, that reminds me of back when I worked at Shop-Rite and I was in the break-room and a co-worker comes in and his face is all fvcked up. Everyone was like "WTF Happened to you?" And his response was "Wear seatbelts, I was a dumbass and didnt wear mine."

It sucked for him, and I wore a seat belt all the time until one random day I forgot and got in an accident myself. But I walked away without a scratch and got a ride home from the Cop. True Story.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personally, no. I'm pretty apathetic about scars unless they're very noticeable (across the face or something). Small ones are no big deal, but I wouldn't go so far as to say they're attractive.
 

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I mostly have small scars, like my skateboarding scar on my elbow. But nothing big lol.
 
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