backbreaker
Master Don Juan
the old Bentley's are ugly, the new GT coupe is hot as hell. I'm an interior guy.. won't find a car with a cleaner well put together interior.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do chicks dig the car??
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
if you like nice cars and you can afford one, you should get one. Every guy that drives a nice car doesn't do so just to get women, and don't be narrow minded and mad at the world because your failures with women to resort to simple one liners like that.
Yes, and no.
Here in L.A., every ghetto poverty case and his brother with ****ed up priorities will drive something of note.
Only the stupidest and blindest of women (in this city) will assume a guy has it going on just cause he drives a new car.
I drive a plain non-descript kinda sedan, not beat up but not extravagant either. I make a very good salary, but I spend my money on other stuff like electronics & I invest it in 401k. I've given up spending all my money on metal that loses half its value the minute you drive off the lot.
The way I look at it...if a chick disqualifies me for not driving a Porsche or a Lexus...oh well. Don't need that kind of girl in my life.
Here in L.A., every ghetto poverty case and his brother with ****ed up priorities will drive something of note.
Only the stupidest and blindest of women (in this city) will assume a guy has it going on just cause he drives a new car.
I drive a plain non-descript kinda sedan, not beat up but not extravagant either. I make a very good salary, but I spend my money on other stuff like electronics & I invest it in 401k. I've given up spending all my money on metal that loses half its value the minute you drive off the lot.
The way I look at it...if a chick disqualifies me for not driving a Porsche or a Lexus...oh well. Don't need that kind of girl in my life.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
it's where your prorities are in.
I'm lucky enough now where I don't have to really make a choice, i can have my cake and eat it to, but my mindset was and always will be that I invest in myself first and foremost. nothing comes before me.
but when it comes to material things that are going to depricate anyway, I'm a car guy. I like nice cars. More than high tech phones and ipods and ****. I spend a lot of time on the raod between Del Mar, Arcadia and Hollywood, I like to feel comfortable when I drive.f I like the varity I have when ti comes to automobiles.
in all it's a silly argument. I know no ones finances. I personally won't have another car note again, if I can't write a check for the car on the spot like I did for all 3 of my cars, I don't need it. My cars are fine and look great and run great, I don't NEED another one. But to each his own.
women by nature like men who can provide for them. when you start going with the current that nature has laid out instead of disqualifying a woman for what she has done for thousands of years, you will get somewhere.
Before cars it was who had the most horses.
Before horses it was who had the most gold
before gold it was who had the most slaves
before salves it was who had the most land
It's the nature of things, and a woman isn't being a ***** because she likes a guy who can provide more for her (or at least what she thinks), she's being a woman.
The solution? Get out there and make something of yourself instead of arguing with it. Not necessary go out and get an expensive car, but women can smell money. trust me.
I'm lucky enough now where I don't have to really make a choice, i can have my cake and eat it to, but my mindset was and always will be that I invest in myself first and foremost. nothing comes before me.
but when it comes to material things that are going to depricate anyway, I'm a car guy. I like nice cars. More than high tech phones and ipods and ****. I spend a lot of time on the raod between Del Mar, Arcadia and Hollywood, I like to feel comfortable when I drive.f I like the varity I have when ti comes to automobiles.
that can be said about Xbox's ps3's and every other gaget that ag uy has, they depreciate probably at a faster clip than most cars, yet no guy will ever make a scene about a guy having a nicer gaming system than he does because gaming systems are readily affordable.
in all it's a silly argument. I know no ones finances. I personally won't have another car note again, if I can't write a check for the car on the spot like I did for all 3 of my cars, I don't need it. My cars are fine and look great and run great, I don't NEED another one. But to each his own.
women by nature like men who can provide for them. when you start going with the current that nature has laid out instead of disqualifying a woman for what she has done for thousands of years, you will get somewhere.
Before cars it was who had the most horses.
Before horses it was who had the most gold
before gold it was who had the most slaves
before salves it was who had the most land
It's the nature of things, and a woman isn't being a ***** because she likes a guy who can provide more for her (or at least what she thinks), she's being a woman.
The solution? Get out there and make something of yourself instead of arguing with it. Not necessary go out and get an expensive car, but women can smell money. trust me.
Kev07
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The Ferrari and Lambourghinis are the answers to today's problems.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Lambourghinis are peices of ****, they are uncomfortable, they cost to much to get fixed and in the high end world of cars, they aren't that fast. But they have cool doors
Ferrari's are a little better and I would go with that over a lambo any day of the week, but even that....blah
unless you are a collector of such.. it's not worth it.
Ferrari's are a little better and I would go with that over a lambo any day of the week, but even that....blah
unless you are a collector of such.. it's not worth it.
very nice choice. I'm a sucker for convertibles that can seat 4 people. I have 2. I don't like BMW's for the most part.. but this car... best thing in years they have done.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
if a girl picks me because of my car. then i really wouldnt want her anyway. I don't drive a nice car, it's just an 05' sonata. Not bad, but not super nice either. But it's comfortable, has a quiet engine and some good speakers.
The only reason a car might help you DJ girls is all about confidence. Just like buying a new outfit, a nice car might only increase your confidence.
Don't even try to use a car to pull chicks, work on ur game, then everything else doesn't matter.
The only reason a car might help you DJ girls is all about confidence. Just like buying a new outfit, a nice car might only increase your confidence.
Don't even try to use a car to pull chicks, work on ur game, then everything else doesn't matter.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
nothing wrong with that at all.. that's an 18k car new.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
true story. Lambos and Ferraris have to work pretty damn good too. Especially the new one, damn. I saw the new Ferrari 430 Spider and I think I popped a boner.L777 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
of course you get the shock value of seieng a Ferrari or what not but they are the most impractical cars on earth. I have a pretty expensive sports car, but at least I can drive it every day if I choose to. Ferrari's are nothing but 150k toys that break every other month. they are too finicky they are uncomfortable and they only seat 2 people.. which is fine but I like 4 seater's.
Porsche 911 is better bang for the buck if you are going to spend that much money.
Porsche 911 is better bang for the buck if you are going to spend that much money.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
If money was no object....
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
lol, you aren't missing much... maybe a little ***** here and there but it's not worth 100 grand if you aren't that into cars
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Oh I'm very into cars. If I was a billionaire, I'd probably have that Ferrari, a Gallardo, an Aston Martin, couple Benzes, a Saleen Mustang, I'd like to have a s.hitload of cars.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
no you wuldn't.. trust me. it get's old quick. you can only drive a 1 car one place at a time.
right now you want to buy all the cars you think are nice.. as you actually aquire money and you find it hard to part with.. the strong get parted from the weak.. quickly.
there are alot of cars I think are nice. I wouldn't mind having a Bentley GT coupe if it was given to me but I'm not dropping 150k on a car that is goodlookig when I have 3 nice cars anyway.. I'm about to sell one as is because I don't drive it enough. 150k is a house for 99% of Americans. I can buy a ho use or land and profit of of it..
you could have bought curlin as a yearling for 57k. but i"m going to spend 150 (actually about 167k) on a car that I kinda like.
a fool and his money are soon parted.
Again... it's okay to have nice ****, don't get me wrong. but there is a fine line between having nice **** and doing stupid **** because you can.
right now you want to buy all the cars you think are nice.. as you actually aquire money and you find it hard to part with.. the strong get parted from the weak.. quickly.
there are alot of cars I think are nice. I wouldn't mind having a Bentley GT coupe if it was given to me but I'm not dropping 150k on a car that is goodlookig when I have 3 nice cars anyway.. I'm about to sell one as is because I don't drive it enough. 150k is a house for 99% of Americans. I can buy a ho use or land and profit of of it..
you could have bought curlin as a yearling for 57k. but i"m going to spend 150 (actually about 167k) on a car that I kinda like.
a fool and his money are soon parted.
Again... it's okay to have nice ****, don't get me wrong. but there is a fine line between having nice **** and doing stupid **** because you can.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
You don't know what I would do! If I was a freakin' billionaire?! You think I'd give two s.hits about 300K?! I'd probably wipe my ass with 20 dollar bills, film it, and send it to all my friends to just to rub it in if I was making that kinda money. Stupid? Sure. S.hitload of fun? haha! Absolutely!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
yeah.. you would.. trust me.
see, you are thinking in the I make 20k a year mindframe.
all you are expected to think of is yourself.
when you make money, REAL money... everyone has their hands out. Charities call you. you are expected to provide plush lives for your childrens children s children s children. I don't even have kids yet, haven't even thought about them, but I have to plan for their futures.
with more money comes more responsibilities.
family members come out the woodwork.
I could write a 10 page eassy on money and the problems it brings, but not many people would comprehend where I am coming from nor really give a ****, and the other half would just resent me because i have something they don't
Even a guy like the sheik.. a guy who is worth about 12 BILLION dollars.. stopped buying yearlings (horses) at the certain sales becuase he was taking a bath.
plus, no man on earth has 1 billion ollars in their bank account. you might be WORTH THAT.. bill gates doesn't have a billion dollars laying around. that's how much his stock options are worth. he makes a little over 500k a year.
hoover.com
see, you are thinking in the I make 20k a year mindframe.
all you are expected to think of is yourself.
when you make money, REAL money... everyone has their hands out. Charities call you. you are expected to provide plush lives for your childrens children s children s children. I don't even have kids yet, haven't even thought about them, but I have to plan for their futures.
with more money comes more responsibilities.
family members come out the woodwork.
I could write a 10 page eassy on money and the problems it brings, but not many people would comprehend where I am coming from nor really give a ****, and the other half would just resent me because i have something they don't
Even a guy like the sheik.. a guy who is worth about 12 BILLION dollars.. stopped buying yearlings (horses) at the certain sales becuase he was taking a bath.
plus, no man on earth has 1 billion ollars in their bank account. you might be WORTH THAT.. bill gates doesn't have a billion dollars laying around. that's how much his stock options are worth. he makes a little over 500k a year.
hoover.com
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Well...more money more problems. You probably know a lot more about money than I do. And I'm thinking in the I work part time for minimum wage and live at home mindset. = D!
However you're wrong about one thing. I'm a selfish ******* and I wouldn't be giving anybody anything!
However you're wrong about one thing. I'm a selfish ******* and I wouldn't be giving anybody anything!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
lol.. my family and I.. at least my mom's side of it, aren't on speaking terms because I won't send them anymore money.
note I didn't say any. anymore. And even with that, I still am responsable for paying my grandmothers billl.. which don't amount to ****, maybe 400 a month and I throw her another 200 a month for misc crap. but yet if I called her she wont' pick up the phone to talk to me becuase "I don't love her"
***** I don't have to do ****!. you kicked me out the house 3 years ago because your BF didn't want me there, and he's a crackhead. but I don't go there.
I have a cousin who I liked growing up that are younger than me.. she's 19 with 2 kids... both by the same guy, who is now in jail. Guess who they "expect" to help with the moth to month bills.. and how many times have I seen either one of them? I couldn't point them out in a 2 person lineup. but it's family and I'm not letting family go broke if I can help it. but No i'm not buying you a new Lexus. I'm not buying you a new house. I'm not giving you money for the hell of it. and because of that I'm an *******.
My dad, who I love to death, actually had the right to get made at me because I bought him an Esclade and not a BMW 2years ago. MOTHER****ER ITS A 50K CAR THAT'S FREE! trade it in, and pay you a note on the BMW. And I could have gotten him a BMW, I didn't know he liked BMW's. it was a surprise for his 45th Birthday... but I'm not taking it back and taking that deprecation hit.
my two old best friends were the worse of all. Notice I said old. I still to this day love them to death. to the point where if they wanted to come out here with me what's mind is theres. but it got to a point where the animosity was so bad, I couldn't keep them around anymore. lying to girls I'm taking to behind my back. Trying to steal girls I am with for the hell of it. I had 3 cars.. all nice.. I always keep 3 cars. they both had keys to all 3. whenever they wanted, they had access to anything they wanted, including my house. my food. my clothes.. whatever. I would do anything for them... yet it wasn't enough. they wanted their own ****. we went out, I got the bill and would be insulted if they even tried to pay. The first thing I did, besides buy a house of course, was take them out shopping.. told them to grab whatever the fvck they wanted. and they did. and I didn't care. I was happy to see them happy. I really was. and I'm not talking about 200 bucks. Try over 6k on Air Forces, shirts, clothes and other pointless ****. If that's what you want to send money on that's fine but I'm not your mini atm. Now it's not enough. We got into it because I wouldn't buy them new cars... WHY?Why should I? it's the principal of the matter.
I got smart and cut my 'crew" down to me and me alone.
you are right, more money more problems..
note I didn't say any. anymore. And even with that, I still am responsable for paying my grandmothers billl.. which don't amount to ****, maybe 400 a month and I throw her another 200 a month for misc crap. but yet if I called her she wont' pick up the phone to talk to me becuase "I don't love her"
***** I don't have to do ****!. you kicked me out the house 3 years ago because your BF didn't want me there, and he's a crackhead. but I don't go there.
I have a cousin who I liked growing up that are younger than me.. she's 19 with 2 kids... both by the same guy, who is now in jail. Guess who they "expect" to help with the moth to month bills.. and how many times have I seen either one of them? I couldn't point them out in a 2 person lineup. but it's family and I'm not letting family go broke if I can help it. but No i'm not buying you a new Lexus. I'm not buying you a new house. I'm not giving you money for the hell of it. and because of that I'm an *******.
My dad, who I love to death, actually had the right to get made at me because I bought him an Esclade and not a BMW 2years ago. MOTHER****ER ITS A 50K CAR THAT'S FREE! trade it in, and pay you a note on the BMW. And I could have gotten him a BMW, I didn't know he liked BMW's. it was a surprise for his 45th Birthday... but I'm not taking it back and taking that deprecation hit.
my two old best friends were the worse of all. Notice I said old. I still to this day love them to death. to the point where if they wanted to come out here with me what's mind is theres. but it got to a point where the animosity was so bad, I couldn't keep them around anymore. lying to girls I'm taking to behind my back. Trying to steal girls I am with for the hell of it. I had 3 cars.. all nice.. I always keep 3 cars. they both had keys to all 3. whenever they wanted, they had access to anything they wanted, including my house. my food. my clothes.. whatever. I would do anything for them... yet it wasn't enough. they wanted their own ****. we went out, I got the bill and would be insulted if they even tried to pay. The first thing I did, besides buy a house of course, was take them out shopping.. told them to grab whatever the fvck they wanted. and they did. and I didn't care. I was happy to see them happy. I really was. and I'm not talking about 200 bucks. Try over 6k on Air Forces, shirts, clothes and other pointless ****. If that's what you want to send money on that's fine but I'm not your mini atm. Now it's not enough. We got into it because I wouldn't buy them new cars... WHY?Why should I? it's the principal of the matter.
I got smart and cut my 'crew" down to me and me alone.
you are right, more money more problems..
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Sorry but chicks are prob diggin your car more than you... so basically they're gold diggers. What kind of job you have?nacho said:
I'm gettin my motorcycle licence in 2 weeks and prob buy a Suzuki Hayabusa! It'll smoke your car and it only costs 10 k!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.