"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do boxers weight train?

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Force = Mass x Acceleration

I remember someone saying something about that equation when it comes to punching. It makes sense to me.

You can be quick and small (Bruce Lee) and still throw one hell of a punch, or be big and slow and still throw a hell of a punch. Or be be and quick, whatever whatever. I think a lot of the hard feeling of a punch comes with speed. If you punched someone fast instead of slow, they would feel harder.

Well, that's how I see it anyways.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bruce lee would have hit hard because of the pure speed behind it. Mike Tyson would hit hard because of the more mass he had thrown behind it.

Although Lee's is fast, and Tysons is slow, the weight behind tysons made it just as hard if not harder. However, he is sacrificing speed.

Make sense?
 

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We do weight training. But not in small reps, doing like 8 lifts or something is useless for us. We do waaaay more, and usually without taking a break training conditioning, muscle, etc... all at once. Also using heavy gloves tec.. to punch a bag etc.. is done.
 
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