"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do bald guys have any chance with women?

ImprovingJuan

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i started balding at the age of 29 and decided to shave it all off because i thought having hair covering some spots but not all.

i still have the idea of having hair implants one day, but not just now. also i think that a tanned bald head looks way better in a white guy.

maybe some bald guys can pull it off, if they are confident and have a positive mindset
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker

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if you're black yeah lol. white guys not so much.

i went bald for like 6 months girls loved it. i didn't like it tho. but i know i can as soon as i start to gray with no problem at all
 

3agle 3yes

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Take my advice, quit focusing on what women like and focus on what you like. After all it is men who predominantly approach not women.
 

VladPatton

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Stone Cold Steve Austin, and Joe Rogan give zero fux, neither should you. It's only hair, it'll grow back if you hate it. Buzz that dome, son. A lot of bald dudes look like mean motherfaqquas!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheCWord

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Mauser96 said:
I am with Vlad .

Really depends on the shape of your head, not your skin colour, on how good it looks.
What really matters is how much you own it.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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^^^This dude. And giving zero fvcks like was mentioned.

Yeah, of course you want to do what looks best, but that being said, how you carry yourself is more important than what you look like.

Thread derailed, my bad.
 

Jaylan

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OP, yes a bald man can look good and be attractive to women. It all depends on how you rock the look. If you are light skinned, its definitely better to shave it all off. Women do prefer a full head of hair, but a sexy bald man is still a sexy man to them. You just have to rock a BALD look... NOT a BALDING look. So good on you for shaving it all.

Theres a reason darker men, especially black men, rock the bald look so well. Its all about contrast with your hair as it grows out. The balding look makes you look older, so it generally works against you to let it grow out if you are white, for instance.

Dont go the hair plug, implants, hair piece, or other lame route. Itll be obvious to women and they will find that crap unattractive. If you HAVE to rock something other than a complete baldy, look into micro-pigmentation. Ive heard and seen good things online, and it gives a good shaved look like Zinadine Zidane. However the procedure is still new and I have heard not so good things about it as well.

Good luck, and rock the baldy with pride. I know I will if/when I start to lose my hair.
 
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