Do Average Looking chicks compensate by being more shallow?

[WORKEROUTER]

So here's what I'm wondering: do you think that average looking girls (or slightly above looking ones) compensate by being more shallow when it comes to looks in guys?

It seems to me that if you take a really gorgeous girl and an average girl, the average girl will actually care about the guy's looks MORE than the gorgeous one.

This is interseting and if true, could explain the ironic idea that average or below average guys might be able to score a lot better with the most gorgeous of chicks if they can compensate their lack of looks with some other defining feature (such as personality).

 

[mroriginal2]

Yes, theirs truth to it, why? well this is my theory, its not that average looking girls are more shallow, its because above average looking girls are less shallow. Hot girls dont have to prove anyone anything, they know they can have anyone they want, they are more confident and more open minded they already seen and been with a goodlooking guy it doesnt matter to them that much any more. Or if shes seen in public with a less atractive guy she would be seen as less shallow and more aproachable.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by mroriginal2
Hot girls dont have to prove anyone anything, they know they can have anyone they want, they are more confident and more open minded they already seen and been with a goodlooking it doesnt matter to them that much any more.

Bingo Bango!

Anything more is just speculation, that is the god honest truth though.

Oh yeah, the same does not go for males.... You should be asking that question.

 

[L777]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Bingo Bango!

Anything more is just speculation, that is the god honest truth though.

Oh yeah, the same does not go for males.... You should be asking that question.

congrats...you've just pigeon-holed 3 billion ppl.

This is just speculation..everyone is different, as IF you can make a sweeping statement like that and actually believe it

 

[ethnomethodologist]

So the hottest males out there with intelligence DON'T actively seek the hottest females only?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Alot of women in general don't like handsome males.From pretty to ugly.They will **** with you and talk behind your back...

Usually out of bitterness (they see us as ****y and abusive) or jealousy.

The betterlooking women are more responsive to approaches in general.While average women who have to dress like sluts to get any attention...act like there divas' or some****.Cuz they are bitter.

Most aren't but some are crazy *****es like this who end up hating all men.

My sister is one.

P.S. alot of the HB'9's and HB 10's do it to be nice or are experienced and want someone who will treat them better.

 

[Juan_Man]

Average looking girls are more shallow because they get approached more than hot girls. Hot girls are intimidating so guys go for average girls more, thinking their chances of rejection are slimmer. That's why average looking girls are more picky and shallow.

 

[MVP]

Good thread!
Yes, I think it's the "little man" complex for women. They lack self esteem so they over compensate by trying to prove to themselves they can get some good looking guy. That's why the really good looking girls usually do not go for looks as much as average girls.

 

[mroriginal2]

and thats why I love hot women

 

[ScrewIt]

nono, you guys got it all wrong.

This is my theory (well borrowed from someone else's), but hear me out.

hot girls are HOT, so it can = intimidation = less guys hitting on them. so when average joes do strike them up, hot chicks will give them a chance.

average girls = less intimidation. the ugly, the old, young, average, hot....THE ENTIRE SPECTRUM arent intimidated by their looks and the average chick gets hit on more often.

Thus their EGO inflates like a balloon and they start having high standards, such as hot guys.
So to sum it up, the pool of average girls are left to hot guys.
and the pool of hot girls are left to average joes.

Believe me or not, if you think about it, it's actually pretty true.

So technically it's a Yin Yang thing going on here. In a sense it sets a balance because good genes can be evenly spread throughout the population.

 

[Juan_Man]

Originally posted by ScrewIt
nono, you guys got it all wrong.

This is my theory (well borrowed from someone else's), but hear me out.

hot girls are HOT, so it can = intimidation = less guys hitting on them. so when average joes do strike them up, hot chicks will give them a chance.

average girls = less intimidation. the ugly, the old, young, average, hot....THE ENTIRE SPECTRUM arent intimidated by their looks and the average chick gets hit on more often.

Thus their EGO inflates like a balloon and they start having high standards, such as hot guys.
So to sum it up, the pool of average girls are left to hot guys.
and the pool of hot girls are left to average joes.

Believe me or not, if you think about it, it's actually pretty true.

So technically it's a Yin Yang thing going on here. In a sense it sets a balance because good genes can be evenly spread throughout the population.

ScrewIt, read my post. I said the same EXACT thing!

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

wait... let me get this right. You're saying that HB9-10's want average Joe's and HB1-8 want hot guys?? And they actually go for what they want, because of the fact that we, man that is, are too scared to approach the HB9-10's in the first place, so we go for the HB1-8's because they're easier target's which in
turn gives them the 'balls' to go after the hot guys.

So then answer me this: Why don't we just approach the HB9-10 in the first place? It seems the average Joe has an advantage, so why are we here trying to improve ourselves to get the HB9-10's?

This generalization of women seems a little off to me. To really get an idea we would have to see if the lucky Average Joe's are lucky or maybe got their sh!t together and that's why they landed the HB9-10.

ADKdj

 

[midnight]

although the truth is perceived by man (remember that man is imperect in his perceptions) to be counterintuitive, the truth itself cannot be reconciled.

 

[Buddhistguy]

I had a theory that average girls are more into looks because they have less opportunities to be with hot guys. HB9-10's usually have more experiences dating hot guys at a younger age, so they realise earlier if they want more then just good looks in a guy. On the other hand, average women may not have the same opportunities to date hot guys, so they tend not to have the same insight. Because they have less opportunities, they are also probably more desperate to find a good-looking guy then a very attractive woman, who is probably used to having guys off all sorts thrown themselves at her ...