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Do attention wh*res hang out together?

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Guys wondering if you can give me some input on this situation. Spent most of last year very much a typical AFC over lets call her HB1 whom I work with. Had oneitis bad but luckily woke up to myself and realised she was using me for attention and as an emotional tampon so cut myself off from her. Also discovered this girl was your typical Borderline Personality chick, displaying all the traits. Lets say I am relieved I got out of that situation now.

HB1 lives with another chick, HB2. They are friends with another chick HB3. I get on really well with HB3 and have been debating whether to start something up with her or not.

Friday night was a very big night drinking wise. At one stage I had HB3 sitting on my lap, rubbing my muscles and then squeezing my shoulders every time she walked past. I dismissed this as her just trying to get male attention, as she often sits on guys laps when she is out, though she has never done this to me before. Later in the night at a party, HB3 was sitting on some other random guys lap looking not too happy.

In my drunken state I ended up making out with HB2 in her bed later in the night. Didn't go any further than that thank goodness. Whilst making out she said a couple of things to me - that the three of them talk about everything together and that her and HB1 thought I was in HB3s fan club as they refer it. Obviously the two of them are jealous I give HB3 the attention and not them.

I have a gut feeling that HB2 has wanted me for a while now - she was pretty much begging for it Friday night. I also suspect she has been saying negative things about me to the other two, obviously to boost her chances of getting me. I also know HB1 has been saying negative stuff about me to HB3.

Am I in a situation now where the 3 of these girls are all desperate for my attention? I have no idea whether HB3 wants me or just loves the male attention. I know HB2 wants me but in no way do I want her.

I am thinking I can use each of these girls against each other here to get what I want - HB3. What action should I take to get HB3 here or am I best just cutting off contact with all of them?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Hmm I'd treat HB1 like you care nothing for her because you shouldn't, flirt with HB2 and don't give her nothing because HB3 will think you're dirty, and just play the two back and fourth being ****y and funny like you don't need either of them. If they're friends then they'll be talking ALL the time (they're women)- I'll betcha the competition will drive them mad.
 

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Q: Do attention whor3s hang out together?

A: Birds of a feather flock together.


This "typically" applies to every man and woman.
 

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Attention whor3s don't hang out with each other. They would have to actually SHARE attention, and that can not happen.
 

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Birds of a feather flock together.
I like this quote, but when talking about Aws this does not apply.

As said, they crave attention and they're very competitive. They wanna be the MAIN girl, the most desired and they can't stand being the second or the third girl (concerning attention, etc).

Thus this whole "bad talking" among the aws 1, 2 and 3.

Man, they're just competing with each other to see each one will extract more attention from you, even if it means making out with you.

It's all a mind game!

They're just using you like a ball in a tennis game!

Get out of this mess! If I were you, I would forget these 3 aws and move on. Let them play with fools, not with you. Walk away, that's the best thing you can do. If they want sex, they will give it to you, and will not be playing those mind sick games!

You've got nothing to win getting involved with these messed up girls!
 

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Does the mother of one pride of lions hang out with other mothers of prides?
Nope, they fight till one dies.
 

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Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie?

Each are attention whor3s deluxe.

I do believe they hang out with each other.. yes?
 

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Who cares if AW hang out together. They all need to get F#cked, right?
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie?

Each are attention whor3s deluxe.

I do believe they hang out with each other.. yes?
This post pretty much answers the question.
 

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I think they do definitely hang out together....but there is usually a disparity of some sort that gives the alpha AW a sense of security.....kinda like she is the queen of the gerbils.....
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Originally posted by dereklearnslow
Attention whor3s don't hang out with each other. They would have to actually SHARE attention, and that can not happen.
Word. Haven't you ever seen attention wh*res catfight? I know attention wh*res and I've seen their behavior in public and if another chick gets the attention, they get angry and hostile, sometimes violent.
 

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Does it matter?

F uck all three of the girls. Hotties AND Players hang together.

THAT's what YOU have to remember.
 

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Some of you may be mixing things.

One thing is to be a player/hottie and another one an Aw. But as Aws usually know how to make themselves hot, you´re putting them all in the same bag. They´re different.

Aws dont share attention!

Haven't you ever seen attention wh*res catfight? I know attention wh*res and I've seen their behavior in public and if another chick gets the attention, they get angry and hostile, sometimes violent.
They´re pretty egocentric and envious of other hot girls! I have met some Aws and noticed they fvcked up behavior but seeing two or more Aws close to each other is something I PAY TO SEE!!

It must be a MESS to see them fighting for attention, as well as funny.

That´s my dream ! :)
 
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