PumpedinOz
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Guys wondering if you can give me some input on this situation. Spent most of last year very much a typical AFC over lets call her HB1 whom I work with. Had oneitis bad but luckily woke up to myself and realised she was using me for attention and as an emotional tampon so cut myself off from her. Also discovered this girl was your typical Borderline Personality chick, displaying all the traits. Lets say I am relieved I got out of that situation now.
HB1 lives with another chick, HB2. They are friends with another chick HB3. I get on really well with HB3 and have been debating whether to start something up with her or not.
Friday night was a very big night drinking wise. At one stage I had HB3 sitting on my lap, rubbing my muscles and then squeezing my shoulders every time she walked past. I dismissed this as her just trying to get male attention, as she often sits on guys laps when she is out, though she has never done this to me before. Later in the night at a party, HB3 was sitting on some other random guys lap looking not too happy.
In my drunken state I ended up making out with HB2 in her bed later in the night. Didn't go any further than that thank goodness. Whilst making out she said a couple of things to me - that the three of them talk about everything together and that her and HB1 thought I was in HB3s fan club as they refer it. Obviously the two of them are jealous I give HB3 the attention and not them.
I have a gut feeling that HB2 has wanted me for a while now - she was pretty much begging for it Friday night. I also suspect she has been saying negative things about me to the other two, obviously to boost her chances of getting me. I also know HB1 has been saying negative stuff about me to HB3.
Am I in a situation now where the 3 of these girls are all desperate for my attention? I have no idea whether HB3 wants me or just loves the male attention. I know HB2 wants me but in no way do I want her.
I am thinking I can use each of these girls against each other here to get what I want - HB3. What action should I take to get HB3 here or am I best just cutting off contact with all of them?
HB1 lives with another chick, HB2. They are friends with another chick HB3. I get on really well with HB3 and have been debating whether to start something up with her or not.
Friday night was a very big night drinking wise. At one stage I had HB3 sitting on my lap, rubbing my muscles and then squeezing my shoulders every time she walked past. I dismissed this as her just trying to get male attention, as she often sits on guys laps when she is out, though she has never done this to me before. Later in the night at a party, HB3 was sitting on some other random guys lap looking not too happy.
In my drunken state I ended up making out with HB2 in her bed later in the night. Didn't go any further than that thank goodness. Whilst making out she said a couple of things to me - that the three of them talk about everything together and that her and HB1 thought I was in HB3s fan club as they refer it. Obviously the two of them are jealous I give HB3 the attention and not them.
I have a gut feeling that HB2 has wanted me for a while now - she was pretty much begging for it Friday night. I also suspect she has been saying negative things about me to the other two, obviously to boost her chances of getting me. I also know HB1 has been saying negative stuff about me to HB3.
Am I in a situation now where the 3 of these girls are all desperate for my attention? I have no idea whether HB3 wants me or just loves the male attention. I know HB2 wants me but in no way do I want her.
I am thinking I can use each of these girls against each other here to get what I want - HB3. What action should I take to get HB3 here or am I best just cutting off contact with all of them?