Do all women fabricate reality?

[SgtSplacker]

I'm 43 years old and I can't think of a single woman I have known that does not completely fabricate her version of the truth in argument or discussion.

Has anyone reading these words argued with a woman they are intimate with and had a completely objective and just argument or discussion with an agreed upon solution?

I have never.

I mention the intimacy thing because at work they can pretend to be objective, but something happens as soon as you plug them where they all of a sudden can't be wrong.

 

[SgtSplacker]

C'mon theres gotta be one...

 

[VikingKing]

Nope. It's based on their feelings and how they can benefit from the outcome. Not what's fair, or right/ wrong.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

I have a close female friend with mild Asperger's. A lot of girls try to be "one of the guys" but aspie girls actually think like us.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

For my entire life I have dealt with the same issue. During my almost 30 year marriage and my 5 year LTR, we would experience the same event, but their perception of what happened was not what actually happened. Yet, they honestly seemed to believe their "version" of reality. And it can be insanely frustrating.

However, the woman I'm seeing now sometimes shows some semblance of a more correct sense of reality. There have been 2 instances where she acted a certain way. I calmly told her what happened and what she did. Initially, she seemed to not understand what I was taking exception to. So, I flipped the script and explained it as if I did to her what she did to me. I could see her processing what I said... Then, in both cases she said: "you're right, I wasn't considering your feelings and I was being an azzhole". Then she apologized.

I was stunned. I have never ever had a woman do that.

However, she is still a woman and is by nature, solipsistic. So her perception of reality Is always influenced by her female nature. That, and sadly, she's been brainwashed to some degree by feminism.

However, so far she is the most rational, balanced woman I've been involved with in my 58 years.

-Augustus-

 

[Serenity]

There is one reality. But how do you know they're the one's fabricating and not yourself?

 

[Billtx49]

There is one reality. But how do you know they're the one's fabricating and not yourself?

OP's statement assumes that men and women interpret reality in the same way. Their experienced reality and how they view it may be entirely different than ours.

 

[El Payaso]

Yes. It's called a hamster.

 

[Serenity]

OP's statement assumes that men and women interpret reality in the same way. Their experienced reality and how they view it may be entirely different than ours.

It is the same, I assume the same. But one of them must be wrong if that's the case, so how do you know who's wrong?

It's easy to tell when you have the documents.

That makes no sense. Documents are created based upon a persons interpretation of reality, it circles around to the same philosophical problem.

 

[SgtSplacker]

To describe reality you firstly remove emotion from the observation. This first step is where women fail miserably. The other day my ex was watching a movie about some older lady with a crush on a younger guy she works with. The younger guy treated her like a friend and in return she crossed all the signals and stalked and meddled in this guys life behind the scenes as much as she could. Eventually he started to hit it off with a really nice girl, and that drove her to make an anonymous facebook account and post things that caused the girl he was getting serious with to leave him, thinking he was hiding something from her after she saw the post and he could not explain it.

The only thing my ex could see was the emotional content of the movie, the love story was beautiful to her. I only saw a selfish thankless old woman ruining the life of a person that has only tried to help her. Which observation is more real?

Well I can say this would be a royally fuucked up world if everyone was only preoccupied with their emotions like that and did not consider other peoples lives at all. As far as I can tell this is the world women live in. Some ladies can control it, many can't.

 

[Reptar]

Perception is reality. Enter the matrix. lol, women and weak men act mostly on emotions.

 

[ubercat]

Sergeant recently I've had a female friend who told me many times she prided herself on her loyalty disappear the instant she got a boyfriend. Had my soon to be ex-girlfriend tell me she loves me too much and then say we needed a break. My Mom is on one hand saying I need to protect my money and then telling me I need to settle down with good woman. So yes solipsism rules they will always argue from their feelings, what their hen coop says or their agenda.

 

[MrWood]

actually most women in my experience do not understand a "factual timeline"
they fail to have the ability to say:

this FACT happened at X time, preceeded by Y and Z
this FACT can only happen if Y+Z occour
this FACT is ONLY true if Y+Z preceed
will clearly argue that FACT occured without Y or Z (but may indeed agree that FACT must come after Y+Z in a logical universe)

 

[The Duke]

SGT Splacker-
What you have mentioned is very common. Women tend to reason with "emotion", men tend to reason with "logic". This is the big disconnect between us and them. More "logical" women do exist, and when you experience one you will fine they are quite easy to get along with as long as you are a "logical" reasoner as well.

When dealing with a typical "emotional" reasoning female, I found it best to let them carry on with their distorted reality, and then once they calmed down try and reason with them in hopes of bringing them to a more correct interpretation grounded in rational logic.

 

[Von]

SGT Splacker-
What you have mentioned is very common. Women tend to reason with "emotion", men tend to reason with "logic". This is the big disconnect between us and them. More "logical" women do exist, and when you experience one you will fine they are quite easy to get along with as long as you are a "logical" reasoner as well.

When dealing with a typical "emotional" reasoning female, I found it best to let them carry on with their distorted reality, and then once they calmed down try and reason with them in hopes of bringing them to a more correct interpretation grounded in rational logic.

Emotions distort the woman reality.

Any emotions changes your perception of reality.

Sometimes its better just to let it go.... and not argue lol.

Perception of reality is to fit their emotional needs, protect themselves, etc...

 

[dude99]

I'm 43 years old and I can't think of a single woman I have known that does not completely fabricate her version of the truth in argument or discussion.

Has anyone reading these words argued with a woman they are intimate with and had a completely objective and just argument or discussion with an agreed upon solution?

I have never.

I mention the intimacy thing because at work they can pretend to be objective, but something happens as soon as you plug them where they all of a sudden can't be wrong.

Your looking at it from the wrong point of view.

When you argue you use logic and facts. You lay your points out in order and present what you to believe to be concrete.

Women are interested in winning the arguement only. Not in facts not in who is right and who is wrong but how do i win.

You are steered by logic. They are steered by emotion. That is why they will bring up everything you have ever done in your lifetime. They arent interested in the current topic. They only want to win and facts go out the window and low blows come out.

Best way to handle girls like this is to not play. Dont hit the ball back. Dont reply do not entertain them

 

[RangerMIke]

I was going to offer a VERY long explanation that no one would read... so instead I'll be brief and likely inspire more questions:

Self-awareness is simply the emotional side effect of our brains processing information. Since women are emotional creatures... they 'feel' the world revolves around them.... or rather this is their default belief. With men, self-awareness comes with action, we are what we do. With women... they are what they 'feel'.

This is why women are much more likely to get conned, fall into a cult, believe in astrology, tarot cards, palm reading, and magical thinking.... Many really do not understand why things are the way they are, and are actually bothered by an analytical process.

 

[SmooveMooves]

No.

 

[Vivacity]

She has a vagina. She can do and say whatever the fukc she wants because she thinks men are craving for her vagina and are willing to put up with her attitude.

When she puts her hand down there at her vagina and smells her hand back, it smells scent. Am I being blunt? Am I being harsh on women?