"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do all women cheat?

Obsidian

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A lot of you guys seem to be answering the question of Will my girl leave me if a more manly guy comes along? instead of Will my girl cheat on me with a more manly guy? They are obviously two different questions, tho. The first one asks if a girl will stay with you forever, which is obviously false, unless maybe you're married and you're both religious. The second question asks, "Will my girl have the decency to break up with me first before she starts sexing another dude?"

I don't really know the answer. I don't know if either sex is more likely to cheat, but try to stay on topic and answer the right question.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think all women cheat, but I think all women have thought about it at one time or another. All humans are sex driven creatures. Some just have more control mentally than others. But that doesn't mean your woman hasn't thought of other men, because she most certainly has. It's her importance she places on the relationship that will stop her from cheating.

When alcohol gets involved, lines get blurred. Cheating becomes very possible even for women happily in a relationship with the man of her dreams.

I've had women head over heels for me before going early into a relationship, that have ended in me nexting them because they can't control their emotional desires while they are intoxicated. Then again, maybe I shouldn't be getting into relationships with women who are great in bed :)
 

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frivolousz21 said:
ive said this in another thread..I know many woman 22-25 that are respectful and attractive..and wouldnt cheat on a guy they care for.....

You have no way of knowing this. Those beautiful rays of sunshine you think are so sweet and innocent could very well cheat regardless of their long winded speeches about how they could never hurt a guy they 'cared' for.

I doubt you know many of those many women intimately. And even then you really don't have a clue what they will do. I never think my gf will cheat but 3 times now they have.

I actually have textual evidence of my ex cheating on another of her exes before me. I never told her i have the evidence and to this day she claims she only cheated once in her life (and only kissed him!) and that was after he cheated on her... and of course this isn't the same guy i have evidence for. The thing is.. otherwise she's always been fairly upstanding morally and whatever but yet still here she is lying to my face when previously i never thought she would cheat on anybody. She actually tried getting back together with the ex she cheated on years after they broke up only to tell me she felt she couldn't trust him after they spent a weekend together. Couldn't trust HIM. Haha.

Women are often one giant facade. Even the 'good' ones.
 
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