Do all women become clingy when they fall in love?

[Desdinova]

women will try their damn hardest NOT to fall in love with a guy they are seeing. women are the most vulnerable when theyre in love. they know this. thats why they gaurd themselves so well.

This is dependent on the age and experience of the woman. If she's less experienced, she's going to fall in love quickly with the first guy who rocks her emotions. These women aren't crazy, just inexperienced.

Older and more experienced women are a different story. I've been stalked because some women are completely fvcked in the head. They hate your guts, and then they start showing up at places you work, your favourite hangouts, etc.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Pretty much every girl I've dated became clingy once they started liking me. They want to text or call every day and those things are counterproductive to the relationship because familiarity breeds contempt and lowers attraction when you become too available.

Started liking you versus in love are not one and the same thing.

 

[Glassguy]

Pretty much every girl I've dated became clingy once they started liking me. They want to text or call every day and those things are counterproductive to the relationship because familiarity breeds contempt and lowers attraction when you become too available.

Simple answer- Yes.

And if you have higher value they will be more inclined to keep tabs on you while they get to know you better. They know a man with options kicks them into chasing mode and their insecurities get the best of them.

It's not a bad problem to have as you are doing it right to get them to this point. The flip side is they don't like you enough or your value isn't high enough for them to chase and they continue to see you and still check out other menus. That's when most men think they got played or gamed. In all reality, her interest and liking you wasn't strong enough to become clingy, as a womans clingyness can also be a great gauge on her investment level in you, as long as its not the psycho/stalker type

As I have said before on here, once you stick your d!ck in a woman , the entire complexity of the power in the relationship with her SHOULD change. As long as you are fvcking her correctly.

I would much rather laugh off some of their clingyness rather than be confused as to where I stand with a woman.

 

[wifehunter]

I think chicks may be more related to monkeys!

 

[Pandora]

As I have said before on here, once you stick your d!ck in a woman , the entire complexity of the power in the relationship with her SHOULD change. As long as you are fvcking her correctly.

I would much rather laugh off some of their clingyness rather than be confused as to where I stand with a woman.

Glassguy you are a dope poster and very knowledgeable but on this small part i disagree. You can give a girl multiple orgasm, give her the best sex of her life and she will still not become clingy. In fact she can run away to other options. This is mostly true for big east coast city girls with tons of options. I know its true in the DC metro area. Once a girls psyche has been broken she will be able to compartmentalize great sex and not necessarily equate it with love. These are the true sluts. They have gotten so much di*k that their attachment mechanism is broken. I can prove this with texts too.

A lot of these girls have other issues like deep seated insecurities. It also happens when they don't trust you. They cut you off first in order to avoid getting hurt. This usually happens when you fu*k da **** out of girls that look at you as a player.

 

[derby1]

It also happens when they don't trust you. They cut you off first in order to avoid getting hurt. This usually happens when you fu*k da **** out of girls that look at you as a player.

had 2 girls in 3 months ghost me who i was banging the daylights out, all they went on about was me being a player with no evidence whatsoever....certainly did not do me any favours

this whole "they want to tie you down or it makes you more desirable".............. did it FCk

 

[BeExcellent]

It would be nice to meet a girl who can maintain a healthy sense of self and distance.

They exist but they are rare. These are your feminine, high self esteem women. If they happen to be beautiful as well? They have tremendous choice.

It also has some to do with personality. I keep a healthy sense of self & distance, but I've legit got stuff to do coupled with a naturally warm but aloof demeanor...so I gravitate to men who need some space in part because I need space.

I like a daily touch base in a relationship...and I most prefer when the man does the bulk of the initiation. Then I can respond to him when I know he's got availability. My boyfriend typically reaches out once a day or twice a day via text or telephone. After dating a number of months that's pretty normal.

Very early on however I'd find it too needy no matter who does it, the guy or the girl.

 

[derby1]

Very early on however I'd find it too needy no matter who does it, the guy or the girl.

every woman i have dated recently has gone extremely needy within date 1 .......just goes to show... these are under 35 btw ...considering they sat on the date and said it disgusts them lol

 

[QuadDeuces]

Give women amazing fun dates full attention energy laughs adventures, then go cold and indifferent on texts and phone calls. Then again give them amazing dates, amazing sex and then go cold again and asholish and leave them wondering and add another girl or more in the mix to whom you do the same and form a triangle.

This is how you make these girls eat out of your hand and you become that dopamine drug to them make them fall in love with you.

This technique works very well for me but also results in lots of drama and shyte tests and crying phone calls.