"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do all women b1tch?

rhcp83

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i noticed that when my mom wants something, she just b1tches and nags until she gets what she wants.

when dating this woman who was fairly low maintenance (didn't like to shop/go to clubs/fancy places etc) that she liked to argue over nothing and cared about the smallest differences. when we broke up, i saw her "real" side...the side the guy that marries her will be getting...a cold b1tch with a nasty voice and no regard for someone's feelings.

in fact, i'd go as far to say that she doesn't want to get married eventually to meet the man of her dreams, but just to use a man to have her kids and then divorce him like her parents divorced.

i'm getting off-topic here, but my question is, do all women have this nagging/b1tching thing deep inside them and they can't help it? or are there actually women out there would don't love to argue and pester?

i love my mom, but she can get very annoying when she orders people around...and it's funny, her brother warned my dad before they got married lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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L B

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They nag and ***** because men don't stand up to them. It's glorified in tv shows and movies as the norm. Men are seen as lazy oafs who can't do anything unless they are nagged over and over.
 

st_99

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Everybody nags and b*tches at least a little bit, the problem is
when it becomes excessive and part of who you are as a person (easy to spot).

Those are the girls you need to stay away from, unless you want to live
a miserable life of course.
 

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You have to understand that women behave from a defensive point of view most of the time. So they feel they have to come on harder then normal to get results. Why do you think men are so clueless regarding female politics? Things are easier for us. A man is capable of making someone do what they want right then and there through force and sometimes intimidation. Because you know that you are making the most logical decision, it has to be this way and that's it. Very few women are capable of doing this. So their strong man approach involves taking advantage of their defenselessness and just nagging you to death to get you to do what they want. They mostly make their decisions based on feelings and emotions, and maybe sometimes logic.... maybe... sometimes.

A woman has to be shown that you genuinely respect what she says and genuinely want to make her happy because you care for her deeply. Only after that can you just say no and expect her to yield. Otherwise it's gonna be a sh1t storm. It is in a woman's persona to be yielding. It's not the same way for them as it is for us. A woman MUST be made to yield to a man, otherwise she gets bored and starts cheating (true story bro). Wanna know when the nagging stops? When she literally grows some balls. So unless you want some hairy, semi testicular woman forcing you to do stuff all the time you better take the lead, and be comfortable with it too... NOW AND FOREVER.

Personal Story time:
I'm dating a complete psycho chick. One thing about crazy chicks is they sometimes totally love sex (mine does) so she was hired. And they respond very well almost exaggeratedly so to the teachings on this site. I had been dating her for about 3 months and I could tell she was kind of on the fence about us. She tried to tell me not to go to hang with my friend one Friday. With that one Mr. Sweetness (me) very unceremoniously told her to fvck off and that she was never going to control me like that. I celebrated the point in my argument with her that day "Maybe you do need to get with some of those chumps you have on Fbook, because your never going to tell me what to do with my time like that. You got me fvcking bent! I hope your still cool with them!" We went back and fourth I honestly didn't care whether she left me or not, because I simply can't live my life like that. After that argument she was head over heels for me, the next day she said "i love you" for the first time. It was absolutely ground breaking for our relationship. She opened herself up to me in ways she never had before, truly epic. And wanna know what? SHE FELT GOOD DOING IT!!!!! Shes happier now than she has ever been, it's amazing...

The moral of the story:

The world is full of successful DJs that have always stuck to their guns. Now and forever, stop hoping for a good life wrapped in the approval of some woman. Wrap your d1ck around it, place it snugly in the crack of your a$$ and ride it to the grave. [The world is yours. (scar face reference)]
 
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