Oh yea... Ranting aside, the best way I found to attract hotties is to basically flip the game around on them. Theyre not used to pursuing, living up to other peoples standards, not getting their way, having people leave and saying no, not giving them attention, not TRYING TO ESCALATE, etc. This is viewed as a challenge and exciting to them. It gets them worked up, and left feeling intrigued. Thats why so many of them end up with jerks. And it does work - I did it effectively for some time, before realizing theyre not worth it. Theyre still going to whine, feel entitled, call you a jerk, and blah blah, but theyll still try to gain your favor, and wonder why youre not fawning all over them. With their stuck up, conceited nature - they believe they have the power to change everyone to their whim. IE, jerks into good guys. So thats pretty common, too. I found there is more game and manipulation involved with them. But eh, **** it. They can be crazy with someone else willing to put up with their bull****. Getting laid is fairly easy if you go the jerk route, and basically play them for a while. Pretty dumb and pointless, though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do 10s need more comfort?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
What I've I've noticed...the more ''ethnic'' they are, the harder they are to game. Anyone else notice that?
The question is....if you were Turkish, one of her kind, would she of let you escalate and let you get further?
I am saying yes.
The question is....if you were Turkish, one of her kind, would she of let you escalate and let you get further?
I am saying yes.