"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJs, your advice has worked once again!! but now...

mr interesting

Don Juan
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OK so i was "talking" to this girl at my job for like 7 or 8 months, and we got really close. Too close, we texted every day, and when i went on vacation for a month we kept contact every day. You know how this story goes, she lost interest lol. We lost contact for about a month (we didnt even really talk at work... Awkward) Well i was told by DJs to be "pleasent but distant" and damn did that work. So i raised her IL again, so i wanna go in for the kill (get some a**) lol. How should i go about playing this? I just wanna make the last year with her worthwile.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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