"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJs..who dont know theyre DJs

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One of my good friends I think falls under the 'DJ' category.

In my personal opinion, every girl that he has ever dated or hooked up with has been incredibly attractive.

In addition to that, his ex-ex from high school(he's my age) isn't over him, and will still **** him if he calls her up.

On top of that, he recently got mutually ended a relationship with an incredibly dirty *****, banged 3 girls that next week, told the *****, and she still let him **** her. To me, that's mindblowing.

Now I've known this guy for some time. He isn't anything special in terms of looks. Hell he's almost 21 and can hardly grow facial hair. I don't know why he even owns a razor.

He says the key to it all is confidence, but when I'm with him, he doesn't act any different than the regular guy, and if anything he's immature compared to guys our age. And he's dated older chicks.

People like him just blow my mind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mate

You are dead right and this is my usual point. He isnt "hung up" on it, he isnt desperately seeking anything, he is a natural. Most naturqal DJ's have never heard of kino, c&f and the like, they simply are themselves. This site attempts to impart some of this to others.

Women have an incredible sixth sense and they can tell that YOU want them MORE than they want you. They can also tell that he doesnt really give that big a toss either way. Men arent attracted to desperation either to be honest. Women just seem to pick up vibes a lot better than men. Hell, you gotta love women. They may be a puzzle sometimes and they may even frustrate the hell out of you, but man, dont you just love their look, smell, femininity, aura? Anyway, your friend no doubt looks pretty relaxed because he IS pretty relaxed and the female can sense it.

Actually, you should read some of the stuff written by a bloke in here called the Realnezz and also read stuff written by Player Supreme, if he ever comes back.

Anyway, I have almost LIVED in this site this weekend, and I just noticed some stuff the Realnezz posted and it seemed pretty real, pardon the pun.
 
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Lots of guys have 'inner naturals' that come out of them from time to time. The key is to keep him out ALL THE TIME - that is, to be consistent.
 
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Men arent attracted to desperation either to be honest.
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Good point, true indeed. Female desperation turns me off.


isnt "hung up" on it, he isnt desperately seeking anything, he is a natural
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Thats probably very true, but he is one horny mother****er, and does not deny this. Maybe "naturals" have incredibly high testosterone levels?
 
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Just tell him to send in his name and address so we can send him his membership card and secret decoder ring...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you haven't already ask this guy to take you under his wing and show you the ropes. Or at least try to watch him and mirror him some. If you read stuff on here or the stuff from David DeAngelo you will probably see him doing some of that stuff, but naturally. In fact that is what David D did to learn what he has learned for the Double Your Dating series.

Having a friend who is good with women is probably the quickest way to getting good yourself. Humans learn best through example and experience.

It may be a little humbling to go to an old friend and ask for help in this area, but I'm sure he will be pleased you asked and glad to help.
 
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The problem is with true naturals is if you ask them how they do it, they probably won't be able to tell you or give you false information.

Also if their looks are a big part of the equation then they may have a pretty sh1t game anyway.

This is why top athletes rarely make the good coaches, they can't relate to you and they can't disect their own performances.

If I was after a mentor, I'd find somebody who looks like me (or worse), used to have a really sh1t game and learned how to pull like a bastard.
 
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Natural's advice:

"Look like me!"

-fin

That's why that ugly sob DeAngelo's advice is making him money.
 
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