"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Djs Please Advice Me

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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does a person who is kind of nerdy in education, and looks like a nerd, especiallly the skiny part but really good at ****y & funny and always lead the way without being shy at all, have good chances of going out a hot beautiful chick?

Well, i admitt, the nerd is me. Should i work out for three months ( I have really fast metabalism so im pretty darn skinny and takes time to gain pounds) then start asking hotties out?

Or, i just start asking out as soon as possible without just waiting to get fatter?

Thanx for reponding these three questions guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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looks

hey,

Looks have nothing to do with these keys......

Confidence and a Smile. (be a man)

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There is a rule I have found to be true in life---people smell their own. True confidence can work wonders, but imagine that you are built like a he-man and have looks that turn heads all over the place. Would you want a sub-par girl? Of course not. Now females dont place as much importance on the looks department, but the basic principles of attraction still apply.

My advice to you---Dont try to wrestle down game when you know youre outmatched. Im not saying you'll never pull a lucious 9 or 10, but rookie quarterbacks dont win championships, if you know what I mean.
Go for good looking girls, but look for chcks who are more your speed. Once you start building a quality physique and pullin in some decent girls, youre confidence will grow just like your muscle. A 130-pound dude is not going to put up 400 on the bench. It takes hard-a$$ work.

And dont underestimate the power of a muscular body. Hit those weights, bro. :cool:
 
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