"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Djs Please Advice Me

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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does a person who is kind of nerdy in education, and looks like a nerd, especiallly the skiny part but really good at ****y & funny and always lead the way without being shy at all, have good chances of going out a hot beautiful chick?

Well, i admitt, the nerd is me. Should i work out for three months ( I have really fast metabalism so im pretty darn skinny and takes time to gain pounds) then start asking hotties out?

Or, i just start asking out as soon as possible without just waiting to get fatter?

Thanx for reponding these three questions guys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cave dweller

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looks

hey,

Looks have nothing to do with these keys......

Confidence and a Smile. (be a man)

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There is a rule I have found to be true in life---people smell their own. True confidence can work wonders, but imagine that you are built like a he-man and have looks that turn heads all over the place. Would you want a sub-par girl? Of course not. Now females dont place as much importance on the looks department, but the basic principles of attraction still apply.

My advice to you---Dont try to wrestle down game when you know youre outmatched. Im not saying you'll never pull a lucious 9 or 10, but rookie quarterbacks dont win championships, if you know what I mean.
Go for good looking girls, but look for chcks who are more your speed. Once you start building a quality physique and pullin in some decent girls, youre confidence will grow just like your muscle. A 130-pound dude is not going to put up 400 on the bench. It takes hard-a$$ work.

And dont underestimate the power of a muscular body. Hit those weights, bro. :cool:
 
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