"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJs Only - Should I do DJ Boot Camp

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I was reading over it, and everything in there ive done before without even realizing it. Ive control frames, dominated conversation, dominated the room I always talk to strangers for the hell of it (im an outgoing person). I know how to deal with rejection...... I feel like it may be a good because im going through a dry spell right now, plus the practice always help...For the people who have done it and is/or experienced has it helped you in anyway?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can you ever have too much practice on stuff like this?
On your point, though, you seem pretty much set already. Lucky bugger. xD
 

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Alright im going to do the boot camp. What should I start with though, read through the bible, or just go straight to the boot camp?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MrP said:
I'm doing it as soon as I get my license.

January's gonna be a wild month...
Nice bro, keep make a log to keep us posted.
 
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