"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dj's Of VA
- Thread starter Void
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
This dude is opening up this club in Springfield Mall. As a matter of fact it opens tonight. Some outside entrance next to Ruby Tuesdays. No Jeans, Hats, or baggies. Minumum age for dudes is 21. Cover six bones. Ladies in free before 10:30. And drink specials. Check it out.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Wasnt there already a club near or in Springfield Mall?
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Too ba di'm yound, ****.
16 here...
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
Not much I can really do clubbing wise, besides waiting
Unfortunately just like Patrick124 and LuckyDevil6 I am also under age to go clubbing. I just thought of the places because for people able to go it's beneficial for them.
And dude you live in Fairfax county?
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
yunghova35
Don Juan
PS i work in va
~~LEGAL~~
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LuckyDevil6
Don Juan
Originally posted by Zaine
Is that HS Langley by any chance?
PS. Void and I go to the same school as well and are best buddies! haha
No, Robinson... why where do you go??
Patrick and I aren't best buddies though... we know who one another is... but we just never talk to each other
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
yeah i know who u r matt haha, but only time I ever see you nowadays is in the weight room, and u and andrew puttup a ****load more than I haha. i'm workin on it though. if i see u i'll say waddup or somethin.
n yeah, a meetup might be cool.
btw: fairoaks mall, anyone else find it ****ing BEAT girl-wise?
Mr. Mystery II
Senior Don Juan
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PJ Skadoo's
Il Lupo
Bridges
Firehouse
TT Reynolds
But all these places are 21 and older, unless your a girl, lol! A crap fake will work at most of these places too.
As far as under 21 or 18 for that matter goes, I think your gonna have to stick to house parties.
Mr. Mystery
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.