"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ's in sydney

benderbot

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theres a few sydney threads but they're all months old now and thought i might start a new one.

i've pretty new in game and just turned 18, would love it if someone showed me the ropes and the good places to hit up. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SydneyGuy

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im no dj, only just joined, been reading alot on others journals

where are you located?
 

trainee Don Juan

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i'm 18 too, and i only just got bak into dj'ing after a 2 year relationship ended a few weeks back. i was planning to go to sydney at end of year with a friend, and i think it'd be good to have a few more contacts there. how are your cold approaches going?
 
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