DJ's Handling Flakes: what if she doesn't show up

[a-rookie]

Hey guys what's up, A- rookie here. I 'd like your input on Flakes, I know it happens to all of us but there should be a guideline if we can reapproach and game again or just give up & forget.

My scenario was recently this :
her: HB 7 she shows interest , I saw her the next day by coincidence on the street we exchange numbers she was all excited ;
4 days later She calls me back to see if we can hang the next day.
(friday-1st mistake?) I said OK I was busy and she said she was busy also and was going to call to meet up once she left work at 6 pm. I called her at 6:30 left a message on voice mail:

" hey it's "rookie" ... you can call me back , talk to you later."

I had made back up plan for 9 pm to go out with guys to "sarge" so I wouldn't be affected by a "flake". (prediction?)

And so she text messaged me at 11:30 pm with:

"I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to call U in time, I'll catch up with U next week."

Now I'm not going to be available for HER next week, I know I messed up somewhere with not enough rapport,I guess. she is OK HB 7.

Any suggestions ?
I encourage you guys to please post I will post field report on this and will apply it .
Thanks Guys!

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

1. If a girl flakes on you... Big fvckin deal, forget about it. Good for you, you had a back up plan incase she didnt call.

2. She called and said sorry about not calling you sooner... You could go about this two ways. Things happen and you can try 1 more time to make plans. Or just wait and game more women until she calls.

 

[COD]

reality is she had an on the spot instant better offer........she is motivated by the thrill.

Insted of getting her digits.........go on an instant date.