"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ's from overseas who've visited America.

Naughty Ninja

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Just wondering on what DJ's from overseas who've visited America and met American chicks thought about them.

Do you find American women better than chicks from your country? Or do they seem to fit what most American men say about them? IE: Media influenced, ADD attention seekers, etc..Is the grass greener in America from your point of view?

The reason I'm asking is to see if American women will attempt to put up a more 'intelligent' or 'wordly' front to foreign men yet act like complete whack jobs when their own counterparts attempt to go after them.

From traveling overseas a few times. (And I'm not advocating 'foreign brides' or the grass is greener etc.) I have without a doubt noticed women from overseas are waaay more approachable, and can hold intelligent conversations, flirt and seem to be themselves no matter how good looking they are.

Do foreign DJ's feel that women act a different way towards foreign men in their own country? Or is it just a different, 'interesting' person from overseas( in Europe or America) that get women more intrigued to let some of their guard down?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I guess no one travels internationally on this site.

How about dudes who've traveled to different parts of the states? Any differences noticed in chicks? Or same old same old?
 

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Chicks in the South seem to be the same as in the North, especially around the Colleges.
 

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English.

Went to the States (LA and Vegas) last year.

Had a really good time I have to say, with the American girls. Don't get me wrong the number of land whales we saw was staggering. However we met a fair few nice and down to earth American girls. Even boned a couple (1 week in the States - have gone months in the UK without anything, lol).

They were friendly and easy to talk to. I was so surprised because I was expecting something awful, given the rep that American women have. I'm sure that rep is deserved but we (me and my pal) just didn't see it. I think we were in a great mood because we were on holiday, staying in nice places, had a great car, etc which all helped.

I can't wait to go back to the States. Am in Asia at the moment and the women are airheads. It's amazing when I read about how many Western guys advocate getting an Asian woman. I don't agree at all. They're about as calculating and manipulative as it comes.
 

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Yo'Mama said:
English.

Went to the States (LA and Vegas) last year.

Had a really good time I have to say, with the American girls. Don't get me wrong the number of land whales we saw was staggering. However we met a fair few nice and down to earth American girls. Even boned a couple (1 week in the States - have gone months in the UK without anything, lol).

They were friendly and easy to talk to. I was so surprised because I was expecting something awful, given the rep that American women have. I'm sure that rep is deserved but we (me and my pal) just didn't see it. I think we were in a great mood because we were on holiday, staying in nice places, had a great car, etc which all helped.

I can't wait to go back to the States. Am in Asia at the moment and the women are airheads. It's amazing when I read about how many Western guys advocate getting an Asian woman. I don't agree at all. They're about as calculating and manipulative as it comes.
You were a foreigner man. Chicks dig that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zodiac said:
You were a foreigner man. Chicks dig that.
Yeah that's what it was. In a way it was ideal because I was a foreigner and 'exotic' but I could still run game in my native language. Whereas here I'm foreign and can get by in the local language but I can't exactly tell jokes, be ****y, commanding, etc. Big disadvantage. One big issue at the moment - running game in a different language. Anyway that's for a different thread.
 

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Dude It doesn't matter which country are you from
1) looks
2) Money
3) Status
If you have these three things, they will point there finger towards their Vag and say its free.
 

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Yo'Mama said:
English.

Went to the States (LA and Vegas) last year.

They were friendly and easy to talk to. I was so surprised because I was expecting something awful, given the rep that American women have. I'm sure that rep is deserved but we (me and my pal) just didn't see it. I think we were in a great mood because we were on holiday, staying in nice places, had a great car, etc which all helped.
The English stereotypes toward Americans usually suggest we're dumb, ignorant, religious fanatics, racist, warmongering, ignorant of other countries, etc. What's ironic is all the English people I've met who have either moved to America or traveled here absolutely love it and dispelled most of the those stereotypes.

Next time you visit, I'd recommend New York City.
 

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I'm wondering if foreign men who've visited each others countries seem to get the same treatment by women in their own country besides abroad.

For the most part I've noticed more women might be more self absorbed or have more of a b!tch sheild up to her own coutrymen (unless rich, model, status) than women from other countries who seem eager to have an intelligent conversation, are more open, and don't seem to mind being hit on.

Not that 'every' woman is horrible in your own country.
 
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