"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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DJ'S classic example of her testing u...

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perfect example of a classic shyt test....(via email)

conversation was about what i look like..i seen her at a club but she didnt see what i looked like... i met her through a nj website
so i kept my answers vague and she started to get pissed....her email before this was "fine im over what u look like..."

ME:

thats good, im glad that u are over what i look like...theres a lot more to me then just my looks...the girls that focus just on my looks....mean nothing to me!

the girls that see me for who i am and what i stand for...those are the ones that get the chance....

I see myself to be a humble person.. im not bragging...im just making my point... i dont NEED to make myself look good....

HER:

ok well, this is getting old and i'm losing patience with this....case closed....you want to continue talking to me so be it go right ahead if you choose not that's your choice also....it's up to you now...

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If it's over e-mail, or chatting or something... I just make blatant lies ala : I have been compared to Brad Pitt mixed with Leonardo Decaprio... with the physique of a Greek God. What else can I say?

Then, when she pushes farther, say, 'ya I already told you.'... but dont make it sound like you are dodging the question, makes them wonder what you have to hide.
 
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If I was meeting someone over the net I would DEFINATELY want to know what they look like. I don't know about you but finding someone physically attractive plays a major part in...EVERYTHING. Maybe she doesn't want to end up meeting some ugly fat sweaty balding compter nerd. Can you really blame her? Would you want to meet someone without knowing what they look like?
 
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It looked like you were trying to make yourself out to be a man of integrity and got too deep and meaningful here with her.
This would have worked with some girls... but obviously not her.

It seems to me that you had simply spent too long talking to her on email.
 
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