"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJing out my dorm room

kiz

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
He's in a college dorm. He doesn't have much choice in bed size.



Where'd you get that rug? It's real cool.
thanks man, got it at like a dollar store. it sheds a lot but it's cool cause i keep it clean and was cheap as hell!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by kiz
lmfao at being canadian :p

now serious replies. don't think the bed thing will work but i was thinking maybe a nice fishtank with some cool fish in it, or some cactii (san pedro's of course :D )
no im serious.
changing your room
ahaha.
can u say again for what?
 

kiz

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
no im serious.
changing your room
ahaha.
can u say again for what?
umm...because i recently moved from a nice sized room in my house to a tiny ass dorm room that i have to share with someone, so i'd like to make the small space as conducive to socialization and partying as possible...didn't think i'd have to spell it out for anyone.
 

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Bump because I need some ideas on how to make a room make good as well.

The key is to have a bunch of stuff that catches the eye. Interesting things that make it look like home - personal stuff.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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