"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dj'ing = money

david90

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for the Dj master, how much do you spend per week on dates?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dont mentally masturbate yourself out of this one. Money doesn't matter much.

transport
club entry
maybe some alcohol
clothing
mobile phone.
whatever other expenses, u aint gonna go eat lobster every date ar eu?
 
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Originally posted by david90
for the Dj master, how much do you spend per week on dates?
I'm new.. But assume great DJ's have girls paying for their dates most of the time.
 

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About 7,5 - 15 euros entrance in a club, i would say 10 euros average. Plus 2 euros in cigars, and a couple beers before sometimes (2 euros). Add 1 euro in mobile sms's to setup things.

So i would say 15 euros in a clubing night.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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depends where you go what you do

Meeting is free.

Talking is free.

kissing is free etc.


But getting girls to pay for your dates is a bit of a stretch lol...

good luck
 

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Originally posted by david90
for the Dj master, how much do you spend per week on dates?
Depends on how many dates I go to.

Anywhere from 15 to 50 bucks just for myself.
 
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