Sin and Vice
Don Juan
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- Apr 2, 2002
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Stay with me here. I see so many posts about every intricate detail of womankind. What it means if she looks at you a certain way. What you should say if she asks "Do you like elephants?". What does it mean if her teeth glint in the moonlight when she is standing at a 45 degree angle holding a balloon. Ok, you get the picture. Every possible thing you need to know is here or in the DJ Bible.
At some point, though, you have to actually go out and do it. Try and take the principles you learn and use them. It's like reading the instructions for fixing a car. You can read about engines, transmissions, brakes, cooling systems, body work, tire grades, ignition timing, etc... You might be the most knowledgable booksmart car person in the world! Yet, why can a guy who never read a single book and just went out and worked on cars with his father, fix up a car 1000 times better than you? Experience.
Did this guy pop out of the womb an experienced auto mechanic with full engine specs and gear ratios in his head? No, of course not. He watched, learned, started working on his own, made some mistakes!! At some point you just have to do it. Don't think about what every single thing means, don't analyze your current situation against some person on some board that does'nt know you's opinion. You WILL make mistakes, and then you will learn. The learning and growing is a REACTION to mistakes and rejection. Just act. Just live. Don't spend every second dwelling on it. Go about your life and take EVERY opportunity and Mac EVERY woman. Young or old, tall or short, fat or thin. Don't have to marry them. It's a persona, it's an attitude. You can't just put it on like a suit of clothes, you have to BE it.
The only way to learn is to DO. Hands on. Rebuild the engine, tear apart the tranny, heck start with just changing the dam oil. Point is, there should be no reason anyone sits for months with no results. If that's the case, you need to DO more. I think to many expect to devour these boards and every single scrap of information and then just go out and have every woman doing backflips in their mere presence. That won't happen, especially if you came from AFC background. Go out, get some REAL experience, the more you work the better you get. It can't go backwards. Soon you'll be riding in a supercharged monster. Stop THINKING so much and just go live. Just like money or cars or looks or anything else, women alone won't make you happy anyways. Only you can do that.
At some point, though, you have to actually go out and do it. Try and take the principles you learn and use them. It's like reading the instructions for fixing a car. You can read about engines, transmissions, brakes, cooling systems, body work, tire grades, ignition timing, etc... You might be the most knowledgable booksmart car person in the world! Yet, why can a guy who never read a single book and just went out and worked on cars with his father, fix up a car 1000 times better than you? Experience.
Did this guy pop out of the womb an experienced auto mechanic with full engine specs and gear ratios in his head? No, of course not. He watched, learned, started working on his own, made some mistakes!! At some point you just have to do it. Don't think about what every single thing means, don't analyze your current situation against some person on some board that does'nt know you's opinion. You WILL make mistakes, and then you will learn. The learning and growing is a REACTION to mistakes and rejection. Just act. Just live. Don't spend every second dwelling on it. Go about your life and take EVERY opportunity and Mac EVERY woman. Young or old, tall or short, fat or thin. Don't have to marry them. It's a persona, it's an attitude. You can't just put it on like a suit of clothes, you have to BE it.
The only way to learn is to DO. Hands on. Rebuild the engine, tear apart the tranny, heck start with just changing the dam oil. Point is, there should be no reason anyone sits for months with no results. If that's the case, you need to DO more. I think to many expect to devour these boards and every single scrap of information and then just go out and have every woman doing backflips in their mere presence. That won't happen, especially if you came from AFC background. Go out, get some REAL experience, the more you work the better you get. It can't go backwards. Soon you'll be riding in a supercharged monster. Stop THINKING so much and just go live. Just like money or cars or looks or anything else, women alone won't make you happy anyways. Only you can do that.