"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJing in Australia?

wolfie

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If you're serious about sarging in Sydney (i.e you have no problem cold approaching in any environment), I would recommend bookstores in the city, shopping centres and large department stores like Myer, and Darling Harbour at night, rather than inside clubs. Sure the HBs congregate there, but it's damned loud and difficult to engage since they're all in large groups.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mantra

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Hey.... thanks for the great info guys. Millo, I'll be in touch. What about clothing? I know it's the middle of summer, but is it worth having some good clubbing clothes with me, as well as the shorts/t-shirts. Will take up a bit of extra place in my rucksack, but are women in summertime Oz still into really flash clothing?
Maybe I should buy myself some good Italian style short sleave shirts and light summer slacks and groovy sandals in Sydney (we don't need that gear for 10 months of the year in Sweden).
Also, any of you Oz guys done the Mystery workshops, or have his method downpat. Would be great to get some coaching from someone with that method going!!!
Keep well my friends.
 

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the cross

The most expensive real estate is in the cross, the the Sebal is there, its just that its also a red light district.

Mate, come to Brissie and I will take you out. In Sydney for about another month then I will be up in Bris for about two weeks.
 

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go date a kangaroo.
 

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Interesting advice Tactic.
I will of course be looking out for a HBkangaroo on my travels. This would of course be my prefered option for an LTR. They are SOOOOO loyal I have heard!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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