Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrRuckus said:If you're not 250+ lbs you're not worth mentioning!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
excellent stuffBuckwildNYC said:
that is true and oddly alot these same girls have no problem with a guy smoking, drinking alot, or using recreational drugshoneyshark said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Bodybuilding in its most general sense means you are building muscle. But in a more professional sense, if you are a bodybuilder, you are doing a lot more than working out. You are eating in the correct way to build muscle, taking supplements, and monitering your overall health. In effect, you are maximizing your muscle building limits. Those that work out are in to weight lifting. They are not bodybuilders. You become a bodybuilder when you are training for competitions and/or you make lifting your life.mrRuckus said:Oh i see. The fact that he has a body and is building it up with muscle doesn't make him a bodybuilder. Mmm hmm.
To be a bodybuilder you have to make it your life apparently. And be 35. Same as you can't be the u.s. president until you're 35.
If you're not 250+ lbs you're not worth mentioning!
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Women for the most part don't care about huge muscles. They appreciate a decent build but beyond that it's just the law of diminishing returns to the point of "what's with this freakishly large guy?"
Thats the reason why your lecturing? Because some guys dont like it if we call weight lifters who lift for aesthetic reasons bodybuilders?
Wiesman44 said:
Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.