DJBC - WEEK 5 - All groups (what is left of them...)

[Al Moh.]

"Welcome to week 5 guys. Let me check the list. I guess 3 people made it, all from group blue. Congratz guys, Group Blue won this BC big time, you guys are awsome, I don't know why, I didn't put these people together on purpose, maybe it was because of their better communication^^. Whatever, since we are going to have two weeks now, I'm am going to try to catch up with the rejections and I guess Miguel could do the same, so maybe we'll still have 5 people doing this stuff. That's it for my intoductory speech, let's go get 'em!"

PHAT Rabbit: schwanndiggs
Heart Break Kid: Dorian Khan
rushing dude 123: [email protected]


Need to catch up (Week 4):
Miguel [Miguelgiveshell]
Al Moh
Evolution

Once again, we are going to have TWO WEEKS time for this exercises. Now, this is where the fun begins: Use your numbers! And if you haven't got enough of them anymore, get more. You should have at least 10 active numbers at a time (looks like I have to get ten more...)


Now, it's your responsibility to complete every week on time. You have to:
- Do the reading
- Complete the exercises
- Write a Report at the end of the week
You may:
- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread or a thread of the other BC-Groups
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post this inside the Tips-Section.

In your Report at the end of the week please state if you were successful completing the week or not. If yes, I am going to move your name to the next week. If no you can either stop or give yourself more time. However, I am not going to take care of you anymore in terms of moving you name further. You have to organise yourself then but can still use this thread.

Each week starts on thursday morning and ends on wednesday evening. Use your local time.

That's about it as general information goes.

The link to the BC one more time:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

There you will find each weeks reading material, music picks and exercises. I am just going to repeat the exercises in short form in this threads.


1) Set up a non-weekend date. You can go whereever you want to go.
2) Use techniques to raise interest level as discussed in the BC material
3) Always have ten active phone numbers

Good luck!

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey Al Moh, glad you're still in this. Consider yourself blue . Congrats to everyone else too. We've been suceeding for over a month ! We have two weeks to do this so barring nervousness this should be very enjoyable.

As RD mentioned, I have around 8~ active numbers. I had more from previous weeks but I did not follow up on them. My week 4 numbers are still fresh though. =)

(And Miguel, get up here !)

 

[rushing dude 123]

ok my start of the week is.....i got stood up, brilliant....
I seriously do not know whats wrong with the girl and why she did it, maybe shes insane or something. Anyways moving on, i am going to use this time i have now, to read some articles and get ready for all my approaches on saturday.

Also thanks al moh, for putting up the week 5 thread, hope to see u and miguel get rejected (in a good way...lol) and c ya in week 5.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey guys I hope you don't mind but since we have two people in week four I'm adding evolution. He's the only one left from the late start group and he's on week 4 with the same excercises as us. I figure a group of three is much better than a group of one and a group of two. =)

Evolution remember to report before Thursday.

 

[Miguel]

Phat Rabbit, are you sure your not trying to hard? Remember that mindset from last week where the individual girls don't matter at all? -I'm still using it, and my sets are nowhere as good as yours, but I'm still maintaining. Remember one of the key concepts of being a DJ is disconnect. Just think back to the excercise and foucus on getting rejected again. Maybe that will sort out the crash and burn, or let them slip past you with meh effort.

(oh, btw, I've caught up now. so blue gets it's points... but I'm not going any further into this. I need to master these skills so next time round I can begin on the other stuff.)

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey new Rabbit! My first number flaked. My second call was to the American Eagle girl I got in a previous week. First she said she was only available on the weekend but I got her to cancel her fitness class for Thursday so we have a date. =)

I'll report back on how it went probably friday. RD how was your monday date?

 

[rushing dude 123]

lol my monday one cancelled saying some stuff about she needs money for overtime and said she wants to go out next week, i think thats a lost cause, but anyways i was trying some new stuff + experimenting some things that failed on phone. I'd say i have no plates right about now lmao, so i gotta get a new 10 numbers. if i can get 10 from today- saturday, i can have another shot at this and get some first dates.


I am in a slump at the moment a big one, but when i come out, i always come back stronger than ever. Anyways guys have fun on ur dates i intend on catching up to u lot later.

 

[Evolution]

Went for # and got it, still working on # rejections.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey Phat, don't count me out !

After my last date I was overseas until yesterday, hence the no speaking. I have another date on Thursday so I'll write my update post after I get some sleep.

I hope you plan on sticking it out to the end, I could certainly use the company. =)

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Alright I'm caught up. Phat don't let it bring you down, you are the best direct approacher I know. Just a tiny slump. It's just a numbers game and besides you got your date already. Now you are just showing off ! My first call flaked on me as I said. I also asked the lifeguard girl from one of the previous weeks and she could only do weekend just like AE girl (which I plan to do now that I'm back in town -- even though it will not be counted.)

I did however go out with the American Eagle girl. She called me the day of and said that we could either do it during her fitness time or we could do something that night since her plans were canceled. There's this cool bar/restaurant downtown Toronto called Insomnia and I took her there. She wore a nice mini-skirt and that night was at very least an 8. We were buying each other drinks and for my third she thought she would be funny and buy me this really fruity drink -- I will have to ask what it was but it had layers of colour .

There was a group of girls next to us and they were giggling at that. However I'm friends with the guy who was serving us and he faked the drink was a speciality over here and it was upwards of 20 $. I told her she should tip 15%. The look on her face was priceless.

I had a lot more fun than I thought I would and she kept accusing me of buying her strong drinks so she would get drunk (she handled alcohol very well.) After my buddy's serving shift was over he came with us and we played Quarters. She actually kicked our asses at it (and I'm pretty good.) When I asked her where she learned it so well she said there isn't anything else to do at work. A bit later a good friend of mine Anya (HB9) came into the bar. She saw me and HB 8 and being such a good friend she hugged me from behind while I was sitting and told HB 8 to take care of me. I introduced them then she kissed the top of my head and left. Social proof like that is dynamite.

Anyway my buddy who was serving left and me and HB went down to the metro. She asked if I wanted to see her place "quickly" and I asked her jokingly if she was going to take advantage of me in my current state and she pushed me.

She seemed really interested, lots of IOI's so I told her I couldn't go but she could come see me place quickly if she wanted because its closer and I have to wake up early. She said sure and we went back (as luck would have it my sis is in Montreal.) Anyway we broke out some more shots (nothing that would get us drunk) and we played a game called "Never Have I Ever." It's a little cheesy but fun. After about 15 minutes I said never have I ever wondered if HB 8 knows how to kiss. I drank to that and she drank too which made me laugh. Then she said never have I ever wondered if HBK would need a breath-mint first. I popped a piece of excel in my mouth and we laughed then I kissed her.

After I have no idea how long (2 minutes? 8?) she kissed my neck and I pulled her back and said date number two (I was just tired and really did have to wake up early honestly). She laughed and said that maybe chivalry was not dead. We talked for about 15 minutes then we kiss closed.

I plan to go on a beach date next time if weather permits.

 

[Al Moh.]

Well guys, here I am with bad news and good news. Bad news is, I didn't get anything done. Why was that? Well there is some stuff that completely messed me up. A female friend of mine started flirting with me like crazy over the last weeks and then one day while we were chatting over the internet, she pretty much suggested to be FWB.
Guess what, couldn't hardly think about anything else anymore for a whole weekend^^ When I finally met here in person I quickly found out that I missunterstodd here. She was just playing...
Wow, this was messed up. To get my thoughts from her I grabbed 6 of my buddies and organised a soccer session. Well, I injured my foot while playing, not being able to walk anymore which had the prospect not just to ruin my school ball on friday (just finishing school) but also my summer vacation next week...

Okay, so where is the good news here? First of, I found a weekness in my DJ armor, which is my v-card. Just the thought of loosing it in a few days consumed my energy -.-
Which is why, while I am sitting at home not being able to do anything I reread a lot of pook and AD stuff to kill this part of desperation that I wasn't aware of anymore.
Also, today when I woke up my foot was much better and I can walk a little again. So maybe tomorrow I can dance a little and the vacation should also be okay, hitting all the discos and stuff.
Also I actually gained confidence through all of this^^ My optimism still was with me and somehow while all of the people felt sorry for me jumping on one leg through the room I thought it was pretty funny and said it's good to train the muscles in the other leg^^
Hell yeah, I'm back. I'm going to do anything so my foot can heal fast and while I am on vacation where noone knows me I'll go cracy DJing. Like walking up to people and just say what you want or do what you want wothout thinking if it's DJ-like or anything, I don't care. I realized that all those techniques here are just training-wheels. When you get into the real situation you don't think "now I am doing a neg-hit" you just do stuff naturally that you theoretically learne before. There will be noone telling me: This is AFC or this is DJ-like. Just let it flow. Cause this is how you united dream and day.

 

[rushing dude 123]

well done HBK and Phat, i didn't complete this weeks task. I could give excuses why, but i won't. I'll just say i afc'd. I intend on finishing the bootcamp though and like i said i will catch up with u guys later.

BTW again thanks al moh for setting up this thing, hope u success on ur journey.

 

[Credos]

well done HBK and Phat, i didn't complete this weeks task. I could give excuses why, but i won't. I'll just say i afc'd. I intend on finishing the bootcamp though and like i said i will catch up with u guys later.

BTW again thanks al moh for setting up this thing, hope u success on ur journey.

I'll tell you what they told me when my bootcamp ended at week 4 (everybody quit)...

If you get to week 4, you already won!! You might think you afced, thrust me, you haven't... I've changed alot since my bootcamp, and it helped me immensly! You all still have much to learned, but the journey you made so far just set the road for victory

Congratz to all the survivors, whatever happens now,
You're all winners

Life is going good for you, keep it up!
I salute you!

 

[rushing dude 123]

My long waited report

O don't think i forgot about the bootcamp, my report is that within these 2 weeks i learnt lot about my game met some new wings and learned what my new capabilities r. I went on 3 first dates and 1 second date and i have 10 live numbers at the moment, i got 5 tonight and well to b honest i can't remember which name is who lol, so that sucks, but ill work it out. If anyone needed more detailed report it would b in my journal, but i didn't want to overload u guys with information.

I also probs completed all the other 4 weeks worth of tasks in this single night so its like i technically started it again. ANYWAYS WEEK 6!!!!!!!!. Also thanks credos this a is a long reply, but i will finish it and yeh after getting those 10 rejections my eyes r certanly open and better than before.