"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJBC - WEEK 3 - Group Green + Blue

Touchout

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Technically my week isn't done, but I'm going to be out after today. I only have 5 convo's and I have work tonight so...

I wish I didn't have to work 40+ hours a week, my boss's trip happened at the exact worst time. Still, it has been fun, I will continue to improve, and maybe try again in a few months.

PS Young Anikan and Sam, it's all up to you guys now, make the Green Team proud.:cheer:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Young Anikan

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Weekly Report:
Passed:
I tried to post up my convos but something was wrong with the forum.So im just gonna post up my last two convos,here I go.

Convo Nine:I was with my boy at the park by 14th street.we sat down on a bench.Their was a girl sitting there already.I told my friend to switch chairs with me So i could be closer to her.I straight up ask her,is she single,she pauses for a moment then answer yea.She then ask me is that the first question you ask a girl when your tryna talk to them?Im like,what makes you think im tryna talk to you?She says,I was sitting on this bench right?I say yea,she says I do look good right?i smile and say yes.Then she says,I am a women right?I say ok,well in that case gimme your number,she says no,im like huh?She says,i'll take yours im like sure,so that was the end of that convo then we left the park.

Convo Ten:I know I only got one left to do so im trying to engage in any conversation with a girl.We walk in to HnM,so im waiting for my friend to clock out.So I just start talking to the security guard,she was kind of cute so I ask her why are you working as a security guard?She looks at me and says it pays the bill.Im thinking to myself if anyone wanted to rob the place she couldnt do **** about it lolz.So I ask her how long she been working here,she tells me about three months.A few minutes into the convo my friend is just walking around the store cause he doesnt want to interupt me,but im tryna get him over here cause I wanna bail,She's really not in the mode to talk I guess.So I say,nice talking to you and ima let you get back to protecting the president lolz.So I walk out the store,my friend gets the point and meets me out side.Well,for this week I got about 2 number close,it was a tough week.
Touchout,idk where SAm is but ima try to hold it down for the Green Team.
 
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Heart Break Kid

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Finished mine as well. I found it much easier than the last experiment. I'll post details tomarrow as I'm going on a date in 15~ mins. ;)
 

Miguel

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Technically, week 3 was a failure.

Sorry guys, It's midterms for me, so I've been WAY to busy to do much of anything other then work at school stuff. But I also realize that I need to put alot more time into this step, I've got alot of ticks in this area as phat rabbit said, so I'm gunna repeat this week again and again until it becomes second nature. (Sorta like playing that videogame level over and over till you ace it.) Anyways, I intend to say as a member of the group and keep in touch through the group thing.

But So far, I'm really happy with my results, I've gone from a WBAFC to a RAFC in two weeks. Next time the boot camp comes I'm gunna make sure to pass this stage with flying colors and make you guys proud.

Anyways, I did six convos, heres a run down of the memorable bits.

1-2:
The coldest HBs from hell, to be honest I don't want to talk about this set. But I guess I have too... They were cold, mean and nasty, but I figured out something really imporant from them. I found it was a bad idea to mix eliments from Direct, and indirect pick up because it tripps the ***** sheild. It scarred my ego for a bit but I rebounded pretty quick.

3 and 4:
Not much to say here, just mostly some average HBs. I took phatrabbits advice and SLOOOWWed myself down and made things work. No numbers, but I got their emails (Both their suggestions, though I actually wasn't intrested in meeting them again. they both were kinda boring people.)

5 & 6 (amoung others, though alot didn't last tooooo long.)
Fun stuff. Got a number close, and it was planned. Also the first time I pulled a real canned opener I had heard from someone else. I found sometimes you have to be a little persitance and tell the girl that "of course she's got opinions on the topic", because usually they will try to disarm by passivily trying to act dumb. (some weren't acting btw. Lol, I was shocked too on that btw, women are actually only as smart as men... though they always act more so.) I also found that people tended to have the EXCATE same responses to my questions. So it means I can know where a convo in the future is going.

Anyways, it's been great guys again. Gunna keep cheering you on, and maybe posting some of my own progress. Best of luck to you.
 

rushing dude 123

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Week 3 End Report
Hey guys, i had to leave because well i had a lot of work to do with myself, my ego screwed me up, i started caring to much what people think. My approach anxiety peaked and everytime i opened it just went bad among other things. HBK i wasn't able to do the 10 work approaches and i would like to say in a way i let u down on that, but its more about that i let myself down.

I knew i had a problem on the last days and i just wanted to stay home, but i went on the streets late night with my friends, i will say a few of the sets i did in this thread.

my friends pointed two girls out of the car and said go for it, they let me out of the car...i did nothing. They caught up with me and i walked with them and saw another hb searching her bag, i said to myself screw it and went up to her "hey sorry to bother u, i know ur busy and i kind of got to go in a sec, but u have an interesting look" i paused and let her react ( not good idea) and she gav me a sarcastic "thanks", i kept going asking where she is going and if its the club behind us she replyed and we talked bit more and she then randomly said "i have a boyfriend" and unlike me i jus gav up.

Mad at that approach, but excited i see another girl looking over at me and my friends cross street has shes walking opposite way

*i think should i do it and hearts beating hard and i manage to convince myself to cross road running a bit towards her*
(she turns head back and looks at me and does it again and jus stops and turns round facing me and waiting for me)
*i walk and slowly come up to her and take a deep breath*
RD: Hey
HB: (shoves wallet in my face and says) here take my money
Lmao
RD: what i am not going to mug u, i don't have a knife, gun or anything and what i am wearing is not threatning at all and why would u giv me ur wallet without me asking, have u got some mug wish, i bet u were like o finally someones going to mug me
(she starts laughing)
HB: so ur not going to mug me
RD: lol maybe later , but nah actually i thought u were kind of cute, so i decided to come over.
(Then some how we talk about her job and that she dosn't have one and getting employed next week, bit more talk about eachother)
Rd: anyways i am going to go now and i am not going take ur money, but i am going take ur number
HB: ok sure

Next set Was a girl working (the only working one i did) and it was indirect.
me and friend were in bar and we were on the closed side, jus leaning on the bar and there was a HB bar girl putting the optics in soda water.
RD: Hey can i ask ur opinion on something
HB: Sure
RD: well its more of a question
HB: haha ok
RD: btw i am not hitting on u (she laughs), but i am jus curious how many guys hit on u a night?
HB:None
RD: what r u joking
HB: nope
RD: wow my friends who work in a bar get like 10 numbers a night, so this must b ur first day or something
HB: haha no i have been working here for a long time
RD: How long
HB: 7 months
RD: ouch lol, so why do guys not hit on u here
HB: irdk maybe because i am not in such a good mood when i am working
RD: Why i work in a bar and its so fun, wud u rather work in a office or something
(teased bit because she was thinking about it)
RD: so when was the last time a guy asked ur number
HB: hmmmm....
RD: thats not good that u got to think so far back lol
HB: lol
RD: well i tell u what, seeing no one else asked i am going to ask for ur number, now u don't have to say yes and u don't have to say no either.
HB: this is just pity lol
RD: no actually its because i think ur pretty cute and can't c why no one has asked yet, so what is it 07...
HB: yeh 07*********
RD: so u kno wur suppose to giv ur name when people ask ur numbers lol
HB: lol i am going to keep it a secret
RD: thats fine i will just put u in has random bartender chick.

btw got 10/10 convos in all, i will b in week 4
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Apostle IX

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Week 3 Report Ok so this has been one crazy week for me but ive finally gotten around to writing my week 3 report so for a lot of the week ive not done much at first but then decided to d something the tornadoes around my area haven't helped either

So anyways one of the girls I talked to is in a hate store and im with my friend, and so I ask her how do you think this hat looks she says she doesn't like it and ask what he likes etc. He says he can't wear hats and she says she can't either. When she does she looks to 'gangsta' I neg her about it and she laughs and then she says how she looks like she would steal so I turn to my friend and go be careful she thinks i might steal because of my gangsta hat here we chat a little more and my friend wanted to leave so no number close

Another girl was in the movie theater and i put my drink down and she started to take it so I was like hold on thats mine, and I was gonna stop because she had a guy friend with her but I was like what the hell so I continued to talk with her so I was like I see what your doin tryin to steal while you already got whatever amount of food they have and you just have to steal mine so I go over and I take a box of candy i was like fine then ill just snag these here and we can be even her guy friend comes back and she goes to her movie and me to mine

although it was a rough week for me I was able to get in the convos in and finish the job also sorry it took me so long to put this in
 
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