DJBC - WEEK 3 - Group Gold + Red

[Al Moh.]

"Welcome back everyone. I want to congratulate everyone who is still with us. You did a good job passing week 1 and 2. But remember, we have 11 weeks to go. Stay with us!!! Now, at week 3, this is where the fun begins. Talking to HBs! Good luck and may the vibe be with you!"

Al Moh.
JackRyanJuan
labrat
lilmo
In Motion
Killer Six Pac
just so suave
DjyMan

Again, if I forgot someone, please tell me. As you can see I merged some groups due to a lot of people quitting, especially after week 1. I am still going to count group points seperately.



Now, it's your responsibility to complete every week on time. You have to:
- Do the reading
- Complete the exercises
- Write a Report at the end of the week
You may:
- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread or a thread of the other BC-Groups
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post this inside the Tips-Section.

In your Report at the end of the week please state if you were successful completing the week or not. If yes, I am going to move your name to the next week. If no you can either stop or give yourself more time. However, I am not going to take care of you anymore in terms of moving you name further. You have to organise yourself then but can still use this thread.

Each week starts on thursday morning and ends on wednesday evening. Use your local time.

Thta's about it as general information goes.

The link to the BC one more time:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

There you will find each weeks reading material, music picks and exercises. I am just going to repeat the exercises in short form in this threads.

Exercises:
1) Ten 2 to 10 min conversations with HBs (girls you would consider to date).

Good luck DJs!


Group Gold Points at the beginning of the week: 12

Group Red Points at the beginning of the week: 8

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Sup Gold Team!:moon:

Starting week 3 today, i've decided i'm going to get numbers this week as well, because whats the point of wasting 10 HBs?

But still the focus is improving conversation, so I will go out with that mindset.

BONUS MOTIVATION:Here is something I came up with the other day, think about this. You are probably the only DJ in your school, in your workplace, in any social setting. Think about the advantage this gives you! Everyone else is an "AFC" or just a plain douchebag. So use this to your advantage.

 

[JackRyanJuan]

Yo, what's up team? Good luck to everyone, the next two weeks will be the toughest for me; I actually consider these the breakthrough weeks; it's what we came for right? Talking to girls, getting numbers. Anyways, thought I'd post a preliminary report cause I didn't say much on the first two weeks.

2 approaches complete- 8 to go.

Approach 1- Approached an hb7 working at a clothing store. Told her I was shopping for my sister's birthday, which I was. I wasn't feeling very socially warmed up, so it took me a while to get comfortable. Left the store after some vibing, told her I might come back.

Approach 2-Went to another clothing store and talked to another HB7 working there. Made it like she had competition from the other stores and played off that, she started asking me questions about myself, where do I go to school, basic stuff, and then she asked me if I wanted a management position in the store! Girl started trying to recruit me, I had a good time with it, left and told her I might come back. Went back to the other store with the first HB7, she was at the checkout desk, first thing she did was hold up a skimpy top and asked me if it would look good on her. I told her I'd consider taking her out on the town if she wore it, she was laughing and enjoying the banter. Ended up buying a dress for my sister in there, could have number closed her but didn't because:

1.I pusced out.
2.Since next week is about rejections, I don't want to get a bunch of numbers this week and have to wait two weeks to call for a date. In other words, I want to stay on pace with boot camp for now.

Positives from these interactions:
1.Confidence boost-Felt good to approach some attractive women, even if they are paid to be nice to guys. Still had IOI's from both and feel like I could have easily #closed both.

2.Kino-I got some good, basic kino in on both these girls, just simple stuff like touching their elbows to make a point or touching their shoulders for a moment.

3.Frame Control- I never used any language that knocked my value down, and I never jumped through any hoops. Just vibing and bantering.

Negatives from these interactions:
1.Eagerness- This may or may not be bad, but when I got into the flow of these convos my energy started rising, so I might have seemed a little too excited. Honestly though, I was just enjoying myself.

*Ballsy line I missed after the fact*- When I was talking to the first HB, she had made several comments on how I was shooting down everything she picked in the clothing store. At one point she was showing the dress she was wearing and did a full 360 for me. I took this as a decent IOI, basically she was showing her a$$.

Then, the second time I came back to the store, she asked me a question, and told me I only needed to answer yes or no. She asked "does your sister have a big butt?" Now, earlier I had told her she was close to the same size as my sister, which was true. If I had thought of this during the interaction, I would have said "Turn around." When she turned around, I'd eye her ass, and then say "Well, you're about the same size as my sister, so yeah, pretty big butt" with a mischeivous grin. Anyways, this post has gotten too long, good luck guys and keep sarging!

 

[Pathetik]

You guys rock :cheer:
I'm far, far, far way from you

I'm sad I failed and let gold team down

But as I'm going from nothing, I'll take this bootcamp at my speed. No pressure but still working hard on it.

GO mates !

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Haha keep going Pathetic!

Good job Jack Ryan, stick to the game plan!

1/10

So this week is supposed to be about talking to girls we would WANT to date, I went to this petrol station and the girl serving was actually pretty hot, about 8/10 , which surprised me for someone working at a petrol station

Anyway I had a chat to her about whatever, I looked deep into her eyes, smiled, I could tell she wanted me.

But I didn't get the number, probably the same reasons as Jack Ryan, I wimped out & wanted to save numbers for next week.

But argh!! I always kick myself afterwards for not getting the number!

Went to the shops after, talked to this blonde gal, who I thought at first was pretty hot and out of my league, but it turns out she was pretty BORING and the conversation didnt go anywhere, so I just left, I LEFT HER, thats right, I have standards now

Also an improvement is: I'm not scared of hot girls anymore. If I see one im actually EXCITED and WANT to talk to her, i'm not scared like I used to be.

Well now its the weekend, I hope to get some AWESOME conversations out of it and maybe some number closes if THEIR lucky enough

That is all, good luck

 

[In Motion]

Aight, now do the HBs have to be complete strangers?

 

[thefonz]

Great job guys on getting this far!!! You have shown that you have balls.

Wealth and happiness are just around the corner.

 

[Killer Six Pac]

W00t!!! :cheer:

Alright so I went out today to complete this weeks missions. But I got to this shop where I had talked to girl before a few times but was always too scared to ask for number. But not today! Got her email (better/worse than number in your opinion?).

Later on I was looking for hot girls only to talk to. Couldn't find that many so now im up to about 2/10. Talked to some girl at a pet shop about rabbits. My head really wasn't in it (tired/hungover)

Some "hot" girls really arn't that interesting.

Anyway i'm pretty happy about my email close (shes about an Hb8) but I know I still gotta stick to the game plan and get my conversation skills up.

Thank you bootcamp

 

[labrat]

Well that wasn't planned on exams week, but I'm at two approaches now :crazy:

First one: after a pathetic failed attempt to enter a party, I asked this girl if she had room in her car for my friend and I. She did (wohoo! no need to wait 1hr for the bus!) and so we got a free ride back. Started talking about the party, then general stuff. Only drawback: her bf was the driver :cuss:
Then, later, we were at the bus stop to catch the night bus, and there was this group of girls waiting too. So... "Hi! Do you know when's the next bus?"
-45 mins, you just missed the last one.
-Oooh... That's sucks... So what are you doing out this late at night?
-blablabla

Anyways, not what I had planned for a night out, but unexpected advance in BC! Time to concentrate on studies now

 

[Al Moh.]

What's up guys, I am at 3/10 now. Went to town yesterday with a friend. We approached 5 groups of two girls each, using different approaches like asking for shops or opinions on my shoes etc. Some went really well, some you could tell just wanted to get rid of us^^ Well, their loss.

I'll go to the beach club today with the same friend. I am planning to do some approaches there together with him but also some on my own. I'll also try more kind of approaches.

 

[In Motion]

Aight, now do the HBs have to be complete strangers?

Please amswer. Anyways, I havent been out much this week, had some time of. But Ive managed to get in some convos at the beach and golfclub etc. Convos with COMPLETE stranger HBs: 4/10. Now if they dont have to be complete strangers I have a few more.

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Argh, 3/10, going really **** this week lol

I dunno what it is, I keep drawing blanks in my mind when it comes to conversations, oh well, hopefully il have a good second half.

 

[Al Moh.]

They have to be girls, that you have never talked to before.

Alright, yesterday wasn't very successful, just got one which was pretty funny. Went to the judo tournament that my judo school was hosting to work there (taking the time and score etc). There then was this one HB on the same table. Starting the convo was easy since we practically had to work together (she took the time, I wrote it down and called out the new people who had to fight). Went pretty well, tried some humour stuff. In the end her boyfriend came up, a guy I actually know a little. Well, got him to get me and his girlfriend a drink^^

So in the end she seemed really unhappy when I had to go (had to go to the ebach club with a friend^^).

At the beach club I had planned to talk to more HBs but since everyone was watching TV (Germany vs Poland, we won ) I just enjoyed the time and the brilliant atmosphear.

So: 4/10

 

[just so suave]

Hey guys congratulations for getting this far

I've got 2 conversations with HB's so far, but im going to have to drop out. I've got my final exams over the next 3 days, and from monday to friday next week so I won't have any opportunitys to go out and do bootcamp. Im pretty gutted to be honest, and im either going to start again in a week and a half when my exams are done, or pick up from where Im stopping and maybe catch you guys back up in one of the multiple week weeks. Sorry about this, I hope you all go through to the end, good luck

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Still 3/10... hopefully this week shall improve...

I dunno what it is, this is where I got to the last time I did bootcamp, I feel like i've wasted my weekend, I DO NOT know what to say in conversations.... last week it was easier for some reason, I could just come up with anything to talk about, i'll let you know at the end of today.

That's dissappointing just so suave, at least you want to do it after your exams

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Haha 4/10, it was a quick convo with some chick in a shoe shop, I feel like I can talk again, but I'm probably going to fail unless I can get 6 convos all tomorrow with HB's, which just might work, I'll give it a shot, That would rock,

otherwise I guess I fail, I won't quit, i'll just do this week again til I get it right, even today I felt all nervous and embarrassed again, I dunno why I thought I was over that. oh well, wish me luck for tomorrow, i might pull off a miracle

 

[DjyMan]

Hi,

Week 3 Failed

Sorry all,
Keep on going!
I'll follow you during next weeks

Peace,

 

[JackRyanJuan]

UPDATE: YES!!! WEEK 3 COMPLETED!!!

I just got through going to Salsa tonight, finished my last SEVEN approaches all tonight. Felt damn good, I opened two different sets of 3 and 4, plus several individual girls. Had some social proof since I knew a lot of people there, plus I knew how to salsa. All in all, hell of a night. Didn't think I'd make it to 10, but I pulled through. Bring on the rejections!

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Yeah gonna have to turn it in here guys, I fail.

Its simple, I got no balls and am scared of success for some reason =/

I had fun over the last 3 weeks anyway so a big thanks to Al Moh for getting me this far

I am defeated...for now

 

[IM0001]

Hey Jack, just wondering, were are you going for Salsa?