DJBC - WEEK 1 - Group Red

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10/50

I didn't end up going to the beach; it was too crowded, so I had little opportunity. I was stuck inside most of the day with homework, which sucked.

I had to march in a parade today, and I got a few hi's after. I went out to get ice cream with my dad just now and had a pretty nice conversation with a middle aged couple who sat at our picnic table.

I dont think its a problem of lack of confidence. I really dont know why I had trouble at the track meet that day. I know now that I need to finish this week no matter what.

I'm going to count hi's I do in school from now on. I'm not going to be able to get out much between now and thursday, so school is my only opportunity.
 

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Haha good effort old schooler!:up:

I had a pretty funny/weird/**** day as far as the bootcamp goes.

So there I was, I saw this alright looking women in her 30's, so I decided to approach. I said hi in a deep manly voice, and guess how she replied?

EXACTLY THE SAME WAY!!!

It was a f*cking cross dresser! ROFL :crackup:

I pretty much turned around and almost started laughing out loud when I was walking away.

It actually freaked me out abit,:nervous: But yeah, be careful;)

40/50. Gonna finish tonight/tomorrow.
 

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BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM!


50/50 completed.


What have I learned?


Emotions are contagious. No girl can resist a smile, great EC and a greeting :up:
 
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oldschooler said:
I like it how if people give me bad reactions to this, I can't help but smile as i'm walking away and that's exactly the mind set we should be in :).
Héhéhé :D
Yeah it happens everytime to me. When somebody doesn't react "well" to my "Hi", I have a big fvcking grind on my face :D
People crossing my path must wonder "what the fvck with him ? Why is he smiling like that? :cool:
That's so good... I'm feeling alive and that's great :up:

Game hard every one.

For those going out there and doing their homework, you have my respect, this ain't easy and we have big balls!
Yeah that's not easy but the satisfaction is much more important than the fear we have doing this.

I'm so proud of moving my wuss ass :cheer:
 

just so suave

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Killer Six Pac said:
Congratz on the number close 'just so suave' :up:
Thanks :)

Congratz on being first to finish james.

Yesterday I got 4 Hi's in (9/50) when I was chilling in my village with my mate. It was funny because my friend thought I was saying Hi to people as a joke...

Today I've just got back from town where I got my friend a birthday present, I made some small talk with the sales assistant (girl) but she was only a HB4 so i didn't try and number close. It was really busy in town and I managed to get 17 Hi's (someone posted in one of the BC threads about taking paper and making a tally of your Hi's, this was a good idea otherwise I would have lost count).

24 Hi's left, and only tommorow to get them, I'll be at work though so I'll just greet most of the customers :)

Keep going everyone. :up:
 

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Thanks guys, keep it going!


A few things to note:


-Body language is everything, its not just the 'hi/hey' but its everything preceding that.

As you walk, picture and imagine how your hero would walk, it could be anyone from Arnold Swarchenegger to The Rock and focus on that as you walk trying to match the body language and feeling. Walk as if you were unstoppable. Emit that confidence, power and certainty.

I had my shoulders back, chest forward, looking straight on with a light-hearted sexy-ish look while walking slowly, yet powerfully and purposefully. I noted a few things that girls did in reaction:

-they looked down (realising they are being approached/in the proximity of a strong, alpha male)

-they brushed their hair back (grooming themselves, realising again my powerful presence/appearance)

-they initiated smile first (acknowledging my light-hearted yet sexy look)

You will start to pick up on these things which are simple and are wired responses within women - especially the touch/flick/groom hair. For example, I've altered my dress and I look like a complete, sexy stud - I was at a bank getting some money out and immediately as I approached the counter the women (who was fairly attractive) smiled and subconsciously ran her hand through her hair as she offered me help.

Sometimes, with girls who don't even make eye contact but you sense their insecurity (they might look down, then up, then down - or shuffle their coat/bag) as they walk past (because of your strong frame/presence) initiate a 'Hi' with a smile and the majority will immediately respond through the natural rule of reciprocation.

Remember, you are touching so many people's lives, as they walk along they'll think, "woah, that guy is amazing! he said hi to me!" and they'll start to fill themselves up with emotional joy. You truly can enrich people's days just by smiling and saying hi.

You are a fun, social and happy human being. You have so much joy and value to give to others. :up:
 

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Another thing I noticed, if two girls are in rapport with each other and if you have the body language of an alpha male, as you get close to them they will suddenly stop the conversation and become silent as they continue to walk past.

OR, and equally to the same reason, they will heighten the level of conversation and transmit more energy to each other.
-because I believe they are experiencing an increased amount of social pressure and to qualify themselves as fun, social beings in the presence of someone they, somewhat, care about. In this sense, they have acknowledged your alpha presence and are seeking to align with you and/or to prove they are equally alpha in their social group.

I've noticed specifically the latter many times in social groups (regardless of sex) when dealing with conversation and social pressure. For example, say you're observing a group of 4 people - 2 people will suddenly jump into a thread of conversation that has them passionate about a common subject, say guitar - they both play guitar and are passionately talking about scales and other musical things. The other 2, will probably be feeling left out (although still standing there with light-hearted expressions to feel as if they are involved in the convo) and they will either butt-in and change the convo or add comments, or they will strike up a convo between themselves and try to match the level of energy and passion of the other 2 guys and sometimes even compete with them.
The same 'pressure' (for lack of a better word and my understanding of social dynamics at this point in time) is observable when simply approaching groups of girls with powerful, alpha bodylanguage.

Both reactions are to the same cause, I believe its a reaction to your presence. Their innate, wired responses to an alpha male/leader of the group presence are easily observable to others who understand! :up:
 

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Wow, week 1 is almost over, and I am so behind!! I've made 20 hi's at the mall, gym, and wal-mart. I need 30 on Wednesday! I'll post my success tomorrow and the details to go with it.

On the other hand, I just finished a first date with a girl (rated at a 6) with some big b00bs that works with me. Along with boot camp, I'll add a side journey to how far this one goes. Like I said details will be left until tomorrow. Gotta get to bed.
 

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ANOTHER BOOM!!!

50/50 :cheer: :rock: :box:

Congrats James, :up: also thanks for the tips and notes.

I didn't really have much trouble with this, and quite a few of the hi's turned into conversations so i'm more than ready for next week.

Good luck to the rest of you.

And yes you can't help but smile when the person who you said hi to has a 'wtf do I know him?' look on their face:crackup:
 

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Thats the way mate, stay strong!

If you keep going you'll be able to catch up in one of the weeks where it goes for 2 weeks. Kind of. lol
 

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Yeah oldschooler, stay on course! If your health is better now, maybe you could do the exercises of this week and next weeks exercises both in week two. PM me if you make it, I am going to add you to the week 2 list again then.
 

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Hi all,

2 hours EC
50/50 HI's

Say Hi to stranger was very difficult for me, especially with young people,
I'm afraid. :down: :(
If you have some tips...

Thank you,

Week Completed

Peace,
 
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Darles Chickens returns!!

Hi guys i´m back. After a terrible start to the first week of boot camp i thought i´d better post.

Like oldschooler i´ve struggled with health. The operation on my hand has put me out of action for pretty much the whole week. I never knew the anesthetic would be so strong. Felt like a zombie for most part of it uuurrrrggghhh! And i look like one with all the bandages on! ha ha

Todays been the first day i´ve been back at uni to sort out the work i´ve missed. Met up with the girl i talked about in my first post. Had coffee with her, we chatted, i did a little kino throughout. Found it hard to concentrate on what she was saying if i´m honest as i´m still not with it 100%

What i found was, and i´ve had this happen before. I slip back into old AFC ways by trying to concentrate too hard on techniques and not let it flow from within (naturally) which is why she was hooked to begin with. The emotional connection is there for sure but i´ve struggled to escalate, i left feeling like an emotional tampon.

Having to manage with just one hand at the moment is killing me but i´m learning alot and just adapting to it. Got a check up tomorrow so will know more then.

As far as boot camp goes i´ll continue for sure and will complete week 1 as i go along.

Congrats to everyone who´s completed. Awesome...just awesome!
 

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Erf that's not cool...
Keep on going Darles Chickens even if you're "out".

You must do it ;)
 

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BOOM

Mission accomplished guys :cool: I covered the rest of the Hi's on my walk to work, and while I was at work. Bring on the next challenge :)

Eye contact: 2+ hours
Hi's: 50/50
 

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I was able to finish the eye contact for the 2 hours.
However, I was only able to get 30/50 hellos for the week.

I have a damn excuse though!! I started talking to this girl I knew from high school (been 7 years) that started working with me. I got together with her at her place last night. Spent time, talked and drank for 4 hours, and ended sleeping with her. I have to say, this site is ****ing awesome in improving my technique for continuous conversation, kinos, and ****y and funny attitude through the 4 hours. I could have kept going on throughout the night, but it was late and she was in the mood for kissing then. Just got home now! dammit, this should make up for the 20 hellos I missed!

BTW, just because I'm seeing this girl now will not deter my journey through this bootcamp. I am still dedicated with it.:cool:
 

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Hey Kid Style that's too bad for the bootcamp :(
However you did a great job with your chick ;)

Yeah keep on going this damn bootcamp :cheer:
I've already got 2 numbers (one through facebook so it doesn't really count ^^) but my goal is not to fvck but to improve myself so I'll stick doing it ;)
 

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Pathetik said:
Hey Kid Style that's too bad for the bootcamp :(
However you did a great job with your chick ;)

Yeah keep on going this damn bootcamp :cheer:
I've already got 2 numbers (one through facebook so it doesn't really count ^^) but my goal is not to fvck but to improve myself so I'll stick doing it ;)
Basically, I have the same ambitions from this as well. The chick I'm with will kinda help in the future weeks to come. Anyways, I made 10 more hellos today for a total of 40/50.
 

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So Al Moh wanted a report from each of us.

Heres mine.

Yes I have done this week before, so I passed. But it was still hard and the next week will be even harder. But I'm glad im doing this.

So can you start the week 2 thread for red team please xD
 
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