"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJBC - WEEK 1 - Group Gold

rushing dude 123

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well done pathetik nice to see u finished from how u were at the start of the week. U have broke a barrier and have become more social because of it, more options r open for u now. Keep breaking those barriers dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JackRyanJuan

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REPORTING IN: WEEK 1 COMPLETE.

This week was really busy, so I incorporated my hello's/eye contact into my daily routines. Anyways, said hi to several attractive girls, as well as a variety of people, got my 50 in. This week isn't really that hard for me, it's the next two weeks that will test me. Keep it up guys, things are about to get interesting!
 

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Week 1 Complete

I was actually out with some friends for Memorial Day Holiday - had a great time with water sports btw :)

So I did my 50 "Hi" and the eye contacts Tuesday and Wednesday. First day I spent at the mall and just walked around making eye contact with people and saying Hi to the ones that were passing by me. Two girls did put a big smile on their face, but I didn't pursue it :( I did have quite a few people ignore me.

Today I did my Hi's and eye contact around the campus. One thing I noticed is that if I keep strong eye contact with people and there was nobody around them, they would sometime say "Hi" first to me, I guess they thought I knew them. Over 50% of the people I greeted were girls.

One thing that I really got from this exercise was that I didn't have any negative experiences, nobody seemed offended by me staring at them or greeting them, which did boost my confidence.

Can't wait for next assignment!

ThankMan
 

Pathetik

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Thanks rushing Dude :D
You're right I did a lot of progress since the begining !
I don't understand why I've waited so long to move my wuss ass.
Everybody who is complaining about girls and shyness and stuff like that should make that boot camp :up:

Congrats all !

Hard stuff are coming :cheer:
 

facadegeniality

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i've been doing these ever since i landed in australia...people here are more friendly! let me be the unofficial member or something coz now im on a holiday in melbourne.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JackRyanJuan

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UPDATE: Finished with week 2, will report results later.
 
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