"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tyzef
Don Juan
I'm going on the field this afternoon, I'll try to approach some chicks in the street and get a phone number.
On Monday i did 3 one ending in a NC with a girl i once had a class with but never
had the balls to talk to lol. This time I saw her, smiled and went straight up to talk
to her, she was surprisingly very friendly and responded nicely to kino. While there
I also did lots of EC and Hellos.
All the other approaches have been non interesting.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
6 out of 10 so far
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i had 50 heys by last sunday and im still going actually, whenever i see someone now.
i have the convos done.
i got 5 done at once cos i went to sat testing and my friends finished before i did so i had about a 5min convo with 5 strangers. then i met two of my friend's friends who i havent talked to before. then i went to a grad party yesterday and talked to a couple relatives of my friend there so im good to go.
