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Don Juan
Hello Guys,
I really thank you to show me how to get me out of the Matrix, but better than words, I offer for all DJ's my plan to be a better person and DJ. There's no news, I just tried to put what I learned form life and reading the DJ bible and all kind of suggestions and commentaries are welcome. I hope this should help the news DJ's like me
Thanks!
Rafael, from Brazil
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The best way to learn is going to the field
The DJ Way
Introduction:
The best things we get in the life have a prize. The Don Juan Way (“DJ”) is not different, you want hot gals for Short Term Relationship (“STR”) or you want the best girl to a Long Term Relationship (LTR)? You will pay the prize like you had to paid the prize to get the MBA Certificate, the Kung-Fu Black Belt, or you think life will give the best things without any effort?
So put this in your head: Going every day to sosuave.com and spend the entirely time with computer games, masturbation, TV (including Saturdays and Sundays) won’t give you the woman you want. Tricks and Tips don’t work because woman is prepared to detect the trips, tips and fake DJ’s, the best woman isn’t looking for adulation and get in a pedestal, woman, like Pook said, wants a great man, so, they’ll qualificate your behavior, character, way of life, job status, career, financial status, etc.
Put this again in you head – Very and Very hard work will have to be done, You’ll have to work a lot, especially at the beginning where you’ll get little results.
To be a real DJ, you’ll work in three sectors:
I – Self Improvement
II – Field Skills
III – Deal with the Average Frustrated Chump inside you
One sector depends of other, you should be a successful lawyer with money and excellent bodybuilding, but still with AFC attitudes – you’ll fail. You should be a guy who don’t want a career and not care about take a passion of your life and know all rules of be unavailable, call phone rules, in fact you’ll get the girls, but not to long. So this mean you have to work hard in ALL sector, no exception.
Sector I – Get the prize by Self Improvement for yourself
What’s a prize of something? In technical aspects is how much you pay for something you believe you need. This things get a value established by some criteria (market value, p. ex.)
The same concept should be applied for human? What’s the relation in be value for woman? I think wee need here a solid way under the risk to became an endless discussion. You improve yourself to increase your quality life, you want to became rich not for woman, you earn money to take more opportunities to leave with your buddies, to learn something interesting, to travel and to woman too, but not only the woman. The self improvement, I repeat, is something you do to increase your life, you work your body to get health, to be good about yourself, to take more energy to your job, to become strong when you have to deal with a medical problem, and woman too consequently, but not the woman – If you do self improvement for woman you put woman in a pedestal in a way and your work won’t progress because you will lose your motivation, your objectives has to be others and consequently not only woman, but people will notice you are better. But, who cares? You do not have to prove nothing to anybody because you’ll happy you are having the life you want and consequently (ok, I need to improve my vocabulary…) you have more to offer to another people, so, in this way you are the prize. Why Pelé was loved? Because he’s the prize? No! Because his football art was amazing and he was able to offer to people things they never saw. Pelé never trained to be the prize for woman, Pelé trained because he loved play football. You are the prize for the life! The life says! Hey Rafael, you want to become wiser? So go to the field and will provide you pain, happiness and I’ll give you the wisdom you want. If you want to be the prize to woman you disrupt the nature of things because you are ignoring you and the other sectors of your life that are more important that woman! Be the prize is learn to realize what you want and pay for LIFE the prize to take what you want, you turn the prize when you have more to offer to the others.
To became a prize for you and the LIFE you have to work all areas of your life (The better way here is buy the best book for specific areas and learn from the gurus):
1. Job and Career: This a fundamental area. This will influence strongly another areas. Are you happy with your job? Are you making courses to improve your job skills? You are earning money enough to supply other areas? If some of this questions are no, something is wrong and you need to do something about it.
2. Finance: What’s your patrimonial status? Do you have a car? You save money? Respect your budget? Are get to much debt?
3. Physical: How is going your bodybuilding and hygiene (including your room or home)? Do you practice some sport? Do you do something to improve your life quality? (like zazen meditation, yoga, etc.) Are you sleeping enough or too much?
4. Social Life: I know, that’s our weakness but I had a bad news – you must improve this area. Let me explain one thing first. Social life is how much you interact with people, buddies, friends, best friends, no matter, you must start interact with people, talk to them, exchange ideas, experiences so the friends will start to appear and the invitations to clubs, parties, sports, etc. How are your social skills? You learned to listen people, to lead people, take the charge?
5. Hobbies: Why have a hobby is so important to consider an area? Hobbie is an activity you do alone or with friends you have 100% funny. This is critical in nowadays you have to work a lot, deal with a lot of problems (in all areas of your life). Example: Cinema, dancing, music, games (but no all day! Just to relax!), reading, writing, etc.
After detect the flaws in you’ll prepare a plan to deal with them. Don’t expect solve all flaws in 2 months, this a very, very long work. It should take years! Remember, a DJ is an elite soldier, and elite soldiers pass years training developing combat and surviving skills, travel for missions, they had a HARD life, you’ll have a hard life too.
To be continued....
I really thank you to show me how to get me out of the Matrix, but better than words, I offer for all DJ's my plan to be a better person and DJ. There's no news, I just tried to put what I learned form life and reading the DJ bible and all kind of suggestions and commentaries are welcome. I hope this should help the news DJ's like me
Thanks!
Rafael, from Brazil
-------------------------------
The best way to learn is going to the field
The DJ Way
Introduction:
The best things we get in the life have a prize. The Don Juan Way (“DJ”) is not different, you want hot gals for Short Term Relationship (“STR”) or you want the best girl to a Long Term Relationship (LTR)? You will pay the prize like you had to paid the prize to get the MBA Certificate, the Kung-Fu Black Belt, or you think life will give the best things without any effort?
So put this in your head: Going every day to sosuave.com and spend the entirely time with computer games, masturbation, TV (including Saturdays and Sundays) won’t give you the woman you want. Tricks and Tips don’t work because woman is prepared to detect the trips, tips and fake DJ’s, the best woman isn’t looking for adulation and get in a pedestal, woman, like Pook said, wants a great man, so, they’ll qualificate your behavior, character, way of life, job status, career, financial status, etc.
Put this again in you head – Very and Very hard work will have to be done, You’ll have to work a lot, especially at the beginning where you’ll get little results.
To be a real DJ, you’ll work in three sectors:
I – Self Improvement
II – Field Skills
III – Deal with the Average Frustrated Chump inside you
One sector depends of other, you should be a successful lawyer with money and excellent bodybuilding, but still with AFC attitudes – you’ll fail. You should be a guy who don’t want a career and not care about take a passion of your life and know all rules of be unavailable, call phone rules, in fact you’ll get the girls, but not to long. So this mean you have to work hard in ALL sector, no exception.
Sector I – Get the prize by Self Improvement for yourself
What’s a prize of something? In technical aspects is how much you pay for something you believe you need. This things get a value established by some criteria (market value, p. ex.)
The same concept should be applied for human? What’s the relation in be value for woman? I think wee need here a solid way under the risk to became an endless discussion. You improve yourself to increase your quality life, you want to became rich not for woman, you earn money to take more opportunities to leave with your buddies, to learn something interesting, to travel and to woman too, but not only the woman. The self improvement, I repeat, is something you do to increase your life, you work your body to get health, to be good about yourself, to take more energy to your job, to become strong when you have to deal with a medical problem, and woman too consequently, but not the woman – If you do self improvement for woman you put woman in a pedestal in a way and your work won’t progress because you will lose your motivation, your objectives has to be others and consequently not only woman, but people will notice you are better. But, who cares? You do not have to prove nothing to anybody because you’ll happy you are having the life you want and consequently (ok, I need to improve my vocabulary…) you have more to offer to another people, so, in this way you are the prize. Why Pelé was loved? Because he’s the prize? No! Because his football art was amazing and he was able to offer to people things they never saw. Pelé never trained to be the prize for woman, Pelé trained because he loved play football. You are the prize for the life! The life says! Hey Rafael, you want to become wiser? So go to the field and will provide you pain, happiness and I’ll give you the wisdom you want. If you want to be the prize to woman you disrupt the nature of things because you are ignoring you and the other sectors of your life that are more important that woman! Be the prize is learn to realize what you want and pay for LIFE the prize to take what you want, you turn the prize when you have more to offer to the others.
To became a prize for you and the LIFE you have to work all areas of your life (The better way here is buy the best book for specific areas and learn from the gurus):
1. Job and Career: This a fundamental area. This will influence strongly another areas. Are you happy with your job? Are you making courses to improve your job skills? You are earning money enough to supply other areas? If some of this questions are no, something is wrong and you need to do something about it.
2. Finance: What’s your patrimonial status? Do you have a car? You save money? Respect your budget? Are get to much debt?
3. Physical: How is going your bodybuilding and hygiene (including your room or home)? Do you practice some sport? Do you do something to improve your life quality? (like zazen meditation, yoga, etc.) Are you sleeping enough or too much?
4. Social Life: I know, that’s our weakness but I had a bad news – you must improve this area. Let me explain one thing first. Social life is how much you interact with people, buddies, friends, best friends, no matter, you must start interact with people, talk to them, exchange ideas, experiences so the friends will start to appear and the invitations to clubs, parties, sports, etc. How are your social skills? You learned to listen people, to lead people, take the charge?
5. Hobbies: Why have a hobby is so important to consider an area? Hobbie is an activity you do alone or with friends you have 100% funny. This is critical in nowadays you have to work a lot, deal with a lot of problems (in all areas of your life). Example: Cinema, dancing, music, games (but no all day! Just to relax!), reading, writing, etc.
After detect the flaws in you’ll prepare a plan to deal with them. Don’t expect solve all flaws in 2 months, this a very, very long work. It should take years! Remember, a DJ is an elite soldier, and elite soldiers pass years training developing combat and surviving skills, travel for missions, they had a HARD life, you’ll have a hard life too.
To be continued....