"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mogness

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I was just going through a post on the DJ forum and a few people touched on this. Why don't we have a few of the experienced Dj's on this site make a few videos to give some of us rAFC's and AFC's the right idea about body language or pickup techniques. It's hard to pick up on this stuff through reading alone, so if someone made a quick video of themselves picking up on a HB with a number close, I think it'd be very helpful to all of us who are on our way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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Check out a few old movies featuring alpha-male behavior.

Bruce Lee is a good example. Steve Mcqueen, Paul Newman, James Coburn (as Derek Flint), etc. All of these men played some pretty DJ-ish parts in some really cool movies. Check it out on your next trip to the video store.:D

James Bond is pretty suave, too!


Don't try to mimmic them exactly, its just to give you an idea. Other than that, just tell yourself "I'm the man" and move accordingly and naturally to that mindset.;)
 

Shiraz

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i like the movie idea u guys should do that.

Spike_the_cowboy: Check out a few old movies featuring alpha-male behavior.

Bruce Lee is a good example. Steve Mcqueen, Paul Newman, James Coburn (as Derek Flint), etc.

spike.... there all actors they have a script and bruce lee is a marshalate champion he didnt care about girls....
 

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Riddle me this kid, who is Linda Lee?...
 

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I just felt like doing this... it just loked so cool...


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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