"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mogness

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I was just going through a post on the DJ forum and a few people touched on this. Why don't we have a few of the experienced Dj's on this site make a few videos to give some of us rAFC's and AFC's the right idea about body language or pickup techniques. It's hard to pick up on this stuff through reading alone, so if someone made a quick video of themselves picking up on a HB with a number close, I think it'd be very helpful to all of us who are on our way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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Check out a few old movies featuring alpha-male behavior.

Bruce Lee is a good example. Steve Mcqueen, Paul Newman, James Coburn (as Derek Flint), etc. All of these men played some pretty DJ-ish parts in some really cool movies. Check it out on your next trip to the video store.:D

James Bond is pretty suave, too!


Don't try to mimmic them exactly, its just to give you an idea. Other than that, just tell yourself "I'm the man" and move accordingly and naturally to that mindset.;)
 

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i like the movie idea u guys should do that.

Spike_the_cowboy: Check out a few old movies featuring alpha-male behavior.

Bruce Lee is a good example. Steve Mcqueen, Paul Newman, James Coburn (as Derek Flint), etc.

spike.... there all actors they have a script and bruce lee is a marshalate champion he didnt care about girls....
 

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Riddle me this kid, who is Linda Lee?...
 

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I just felt like doing this... it just loked so cool...


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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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