Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJ to Pusshead back to DJ again..

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I'm going to make this short, partially because I'm extremely tired at the moment (you'll know why in a sec)

So as some of you may know, (or probably don't remember) i've posted a few quite AFC threads about how my confidence and general well being had come to a screetching hault after I 'fell in love' with a certain female I was in a year-long LTR with..

This sh|t has been bothering me for a while, until recently..

Basically gentlemen, I have successfully converted a friend of mine into a sexual partner, with very little 'game' on my part. I've known this girl for about 4 years, never have we so much as kissed. Well guys, she just went home not 5 minutes ago. We've been having some pretty steamy sex for the last 3 hours (i'm not joking, the windows of my room have fogged up and it's not even cold out).

Here's what i'm trying to say. This situation is pretty much No-strings-attached, and my confidence couldn't be higher. My point is, I was such a mess the last few months but now that I have tasted the wonderful feelings of sex once again, I feel like I'm back on my feet again, and best of all : no one-itis.

So if you find yourself reverting back to your old ways, for whatever reason, get laid dammit! It sounds retarded and maybe even obvious, i know, but I feel back to normal again. By the way, I haven't had sex in 3 or 4 months. This is because I haven't had the motivation to go out there and find it. to be honest I haven't cared at all lately. I probably sound like a 14 year old who just lost his virginity, but I'm just really surprized how much of a change it can make to get over something that once damaged you, especially since I'm not interested a realationship of any kind with this girl (except the physical kind).

Anyways guys, glad to be back to my true self again, that's all. If you feel like you've lost your manhood to a girl who left you, or whatever it is that's bothering you and getting in the way of being a man about things, get back on that horse because It does make a difference.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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