"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ to Pusshead back to DJ again..

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I'm going to make this short, partially because I'm extremely tired at the moment (you'll know why in a sec)

So as some of you may know, (or probably don't remember) i've posted a few quite AFC threads about how my confidence and general well being had come to a screetching hault after I 'fell in love' with a certain female I was in a year-long LTR with..

This sh|t has been bothering me for a while, until recently..

Basically gentlemen, I have successfully converted a friend of mine into a sexual partner, with very little 'game' on my part. I've known this girl for about 4 years, never have we so much as kissed. Well guys, she just went home not 5 minutes ago. We've been having some pretty steamy sex for the last 3 hours (i'm not joking, the windows of my room have fogged up and it's not even cold out).

Here's what i'm trying to say. This situation is pretty much No-strings-attached, and my confidence couldn't be higher. My point is, I was such a mess the last few months but now that I have tasted the wonderful feelings of sex once again, I feel like I'm back on my feet again, and best of all : no one-itis.

So if you find yourself reverting back to your old ways, for whatever reason, get laid dammit! It sounds retarded and maybe even obvious, i know, but I feel back to normal again. By the way, I haven't had sex in 3 or 4 months. This is because I haven't had the motivation to go out there and find it. to be honest I haven't cared at all lately. I probably sound like a 14 year old who just lost his virginity, but I'm just really surprized how much of a change it can make to get over something that once damaged you, especially since I'm not interested a realationship of any kind with this girl (except the physical kind).

Anyways guys, glad to be back to my true self again, that's all. If you feel like you've lost your manhood to a girl who left you, or whatever it is that's bothering you and getting in the way of being a man about things, get back on that horse because It does make a difference.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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