"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ tips work on girls who are looking for rich guy but not necessarily gold diggers..

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kudjy Piitb

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hey

reading the tips on so suave i've come to the conclusion that unless you are a master of all them you are going to have a hard time still getting hot chicks.

reason being that if hot chicks (a high proportion of them) look for a guy with money as a prerequisite before she considers him as a potential mate, its going to be pretty hard to get her to break what her mind tells her to go for.

how does one counter this?

majority of beautiful women i've encountered generally go for guys with money, not necessarily as the main focus like say a gold digger but because she has so many guys to choose from so why not one who is rich too amongst other things.

even if you are a great DJ and manage to touch her heart with your suave tactics, how do you counteract her mind where she will forgo going for the rich guy she usually goes for and goes for you and stays with you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thats a tough one. Its biological in origin. (They want a mate that can feed their offsprings).

I think the most important thing is to maintain some sort of illusion that your heading up in the world.

I would like to know what others think on this one. This situation hits home with me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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