"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Levrone

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When I talk to girls I know, they all say that they don't want necissarily a masculine guy, they just want someone who is sweet and listens to them.

Is it that these girls don't know what they want themselves, or are some of these articles here a little bit overdone? :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheCzar

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This is in all the lists of 'What not to do'.


DON'T TAKE ADVICE ABOUT WOMEN FROM WOMEN

Trust me, almost every woman has enough friends that will be a surrogate to what your woman friends are telling you.

Your whole life, 98% of the people you know are going to tell you what they think you want to hear -- or what 'sounds good'.

Nuff said.

TC
 

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Remember this little quote:

"If women knew what they really wanted, men would read Cosmo"
 

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DON'T TAKE ADVICE ABOUT WOMEN FROM WOMEN
Well I would never take particular advice from women but I have a few pretty decent looking girls who are active in the dating world who I am just friends with (and I am happy with that arrangement mind you, even though I've had some fun with one of them in the past) who are open about sex and I use them to interpret girl code for me.

I ask them specific questions and advice though. Like if a girl says something to me what could it mean or I ask them how girls would approach a certain issue so I can be ready for what may be lying ahead. Since they are active girls themselves they know all the tricks and moves that girls use and are happy to tell me. Their advice has checked out on numerous occasions so I trust them.

I would never ask a question though about "what do girls like?" and stuff like that cause you will just get stock answers. But for specific things like "as a girl could you tell me which shirt looks better on me" or "a girl made up this excuse, is this legit?" they are pretty reliable if you are good friends and open to eachother on that level.
 
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