"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ the easy way

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Don Juan
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Writing this from the bathroom in a hotel somewhere in Ottawa, Canada & about 500km away from home. Tonight the easiest way to becoming a DJ hit me and it's actually very simple. If you want to become a DJ , just LOVE yourself as a man , as a human & as you are. It sounds too simple yo be true but believe it or not , deep down many people don't love themselves as they consiously think. To love yourself is a subconscious thinking , meaning you have to embed it in your deep level of thinking.
I have been on both side of the coin - in high school and university I was moving through girls because I loved my self , I then got into a relationship that drained my confidence and I ended up reverting to my weak behaviour. However, recently I have began to regain that MOJO back and I finally had time to reflect upon the changes I made and decided to share with you all.

When the experienced users here advise you to hit the gym and do things you enjoy, it's not just another present message , it's actually their way of telling you to love yourself. If you don't like the gun but enjoy playing chess ...then join a chess club. Simply do things you enjoy doing because you acutely LIKE/LOVE doing them.
Recently I decided to stop being nice and do things that make me happy , and surprisingly it has changed my whole image. I have been making more friends and getting invites to events every week. I simply , just do and say what I like ...I don't have the time or energy to please anyone whole is not adding value to my life.
My new philosophy is : if I do or do not find a woman , I will enjoy MY LIFE to the max because at the end of the day , a casket fits ONE person.
People are going to judge & have their views but as long as you are happy that's all that matters.

I challenge you to genuinely LOVE yourself for a week and record the things thag happen throughout the week. Blessing brothers and good luck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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