DJ techniques usually only work on not as intelligent girls?

[The Sperminator]

From what I seem to notice that these techniques that everyone on this page is using doesn't seem to work on smarter girls. Maybe it's just from my experience but I have noticed the smarter girls just like a good caring intelligent guy instead of some DJ. All the girls I know that are above average in intelligence often have boyfriends who either are not that great looking and don't have much game. They usually go for the guys who are smarter and have the nice guy qualities. When I act like a DJ to the dumber girls it works magic but when I do it with the smart girls doesn't work. They like it better when I just act like a nice guy. What do you guys think?

 

[lookyoung]

Smart, dumb, black or chinese. Woman are Woman. They are all the same. DJ techniques will work on any girl regardless of intelligence, race, social status etc or looks. You may have to tweak a few things in your arsenal but the core of the game is the same for all of them.

 

[djSlvt]

Techniques??? No... YOu haven't seen squat.


The art of pick up and the idea of being Don Juan is not about techniques. That is, PUA is not any set of thechniques. PUA is a state of mind.


If you are thinking of PUA in terms of techniques, then these things are true A) you are an AFC (or RAFC), B) you are not getting laid, and C) you still have ways for learning (through practice)


You acquire this state of mind through practice. Not just on girls. Your day to day interactions, everything you do. Learn theory, apply it, allow your brain to rewire to a new way of thinking.



What is smart girl? All women are the same. They are either AFC or they are your average HB. Smart means AFC. AFCs have problem with being in a shell, so you have to deal with that. If you are an AFC guy you will want to do that, if you are a DJ it just not worth your time.



Watch this thread closely. People who call DJing a technique or a set of techniques are keyboard jokeys.

 

[The Sperminator]

Haha only asking a question don't go all crazy on me. I've just been noticing a lot of afc guys with hot chicks but these girls are usually very intelligent.

 

[NSUballer]

Psshh...if you got game it works on any woman under the sun....trust me...body language is everything

 

[So pimp its scary]

Techniques??? No... YOu haven't seen squat.


The art of pick up and the idea of being Don Juan is not about techniques. That is, PUA is not any set of thechniques. PUA is a state of mind.


If you are thinking of PUA in terms of techniques, then these things are true A) you are an AFC (or RAFC), B) you are not getting laid, and C) you still have ways for learning (through practice)


You acquire this state of mind through practice. Not just on girls. Your day to day interactions, everything you do. Learn theory, apply it, allow your brain to rewire to a new way of thinking.



What is smart girl? All women are the same. They are either AFC or they are your average HB. Smart means AFC. AFCs have problem with being in a shell, so you have to deal with that. If you are an AFC guy you will want to do that, if you are a DJ it just not worth your time.



Watch this thread closely. People who call DJing a technique or a set of techniques are keyboard jokeys.

Whatever you are on... I want some.

'DJing' is a state of mind, but WE ARE ALSO HERE to pick up women. Let's not fool ourselves to think othrewise. The fact of the matter, learning different little tricks to help you in picking up women, is no less of a 'DJ' trait... One way or the other you are taking this all WAYYY to literally.

You're turning this information into some sort of cult or religion... chill out dude.

 

[djSlvt]

Assuming doing a thing will get you a predefined results is stupid. Practice is what makes it work. Why? Because through practice you understand a "technique".

When you think of DJing as technique, you're nothing but a keyboard jokie. When DJing becomes you, then you're pimping.

 

[comic_relief]

I used to believe that the DJ ideals were techniques. Now I would never call them techniques. I call them the "Sosuavian theorem" because it is a mindset.

I don't date stupid girls. I only date smart ones (street smarts and analytical smarts). I have got with a couple smart girls. I don't think that i ever got with any dumb girls.

Once you build up your inner and outer game, you will learn that it won't matter what girl you have.

comic_relief

 

[Play the Game]

I disagree with all you KB Jockeys. All women are different, just like we're all different and like certain personality types over others. There is no magic DJ that every woman wants. If you really believe that you're setting yourself up for a big disappointment. There are character traits that are more desirable, certainly, but you shouldn't change your personality into David DeAngelo.

 

[MacDiddy]

I disagree with all you KB Jockeys.

And I don't know what you're trying to say...

If its a state of belief, than the DJ that believes that he can conquer all types is gonna win.. no matter what... he can't lose... (even if he does)

 

[itishe]

You don't need techniques. You just need a belief that you can get any woman you want and enjoy your life. If you have those two components, you'll succeed, especially with women.

 

[Jay Jay]

Some thoughts.

I'll try to sidestep the "technique" arguement and say that one learns things at sosuave which will make you realise that certain things are repugnant to all women and some things are attractive.

Repugnant.
clingy, needy, soppy, weak, cornie, overly romantic, obsessed, boring, non-sexual, a follower, lacking drive or motivation, insecure, indecisive, self centred, seeking approval, smelly, sloppy, emotionally unstable,desperate, etc etc

Attractive.
confidence, positive body language, good eye contact, nice smell, charming, conversational, exciting, motivated, sexual, funny, exciting, orginal, cool, charismatic, driven, ambitious and LIVING YOU LIFE ON YOUR TERMS.

Knowing to do the positive things and not do the negative things will improve your chances with any woman worth dealing with.

On the subject of "technique."

Its touchy and playing games can often backfire on you. But **** like push pull, being a challenge, sowing confusion and being a mystery works fine on intelligent women. It will get them wondering about you, trying to figure out what you are about and that will often draw them in.

Thats my take anyway.

JJ

 

[KneghtRyder]

I'll try to sidestep the "technique" arguement and say that one learns things at sosuave which will make you realise that certain things are repugnant to all women and some things are attractive.

Repugnant.
clingy, needy, soppy, weak, cornie, overly romantic, obsessed, boring, non-sexual, a follower, lacking drive or motivation, insecure, indecisive, self centred, seeking approval, smelly, sloppy, emotionally unstable,desperate, etc etc

Attractive.
confidence, positive body language, good eye contact, nice smell, charming, conversational, exciting, motivated, sexual, funny, exciting, orginal, cool, charismatic, driven, ambitious and LIVING YOU LIFE ON YOUR TERMS.

Knowing to do the positive things and not do the negative things will improve your chances with any woman worth dealing with.

On the subject of "technique."

Its touchy and playing games can often backfire on you. But **** like push pull, being a challenge, sowing confusion and being a mystery works fine on intelligent women. It will get them wondering about you, trying to figure out what you are about and that will often draw them in.

Thats my take anyway.

JJ

bravo excellent post Bro +1

 

[Kev07]

of course not, you can seduce any woman if you do it right (unless they are lesbian)

jujst like it doesn't matter how smart a guy is, once a woman has her legs spread and ready you're going to get down to it

 

[Ripper]

For what it's worth, Robert Greene author of 'The Art of Seduction' says that it is not possible to seduce a truly happy/secure person. This is because real seduction is predicated on fulfilling a need which the aforementioned people do not have in a way you can work with.

 

[COD]

SMART CHICS REQUIRE A NEW TOOL-so I would say more romance, show your own intelligence but....ESCALATE THE KINO, introduce the physical stuff as soon as possible.

They always seem to analyze stuff.......keep em guessing.

and the correct rule to follow about being a DJ is PERFECT PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT. Lots of wannabe's keep practicing the wrong way and assume they are making progress. NOT-any lazy man can practice and improve his skill set SLIGHTLY. ITS how dedicated, specific you practice that matters......thats what separates the REAL DJ'S AND self proclaimed DJ's.

STRIVE TO PERFECT YOUR TECHNIQUE BY FOLLOWING A FLAWLESS MIND SET....its not only how many times your practice but HOW you practice.

AGAIN.......PERFECT practice makes perfect.....uhhh wots dat mean.......

dont be sloppy, dont go for easy pickups just cause its practice...LOOK FOR MORE DIFFICULT CHALLENGES.

 

[Rebound Material]

This thread is true. I don't care what anyone says on here. The so called techniques/rules that this site suggests you do can be smelled by chicks(more likely the experienced ones) from a mile away. They know when a guy is playing games, and assuming that they're smart, they tend to stay away from that guy.

 

[Wyldfire]

Smart, dumb, black or chinese. Woman are Woman. They are all the same. DJ techniques will work on any girl regardless of intelligence, race, social status etc or looks. You may have to tweak a few things in your arsenal but the core of the game is the same for all of them.

They don't work on all women. They have never worked on me. This drop dead gorgeous guy who I was very attracted to tried using Speed Seduction stuff on me one time and failed miserably. He was very smooth, confident, a good conversationalist but he got nowhere. In fact, I turned it around on him and beat him at his own game. He spent a good 3 hours hanging off every word I said. He tried the whole ****y and funny stuff for a good hour but I spit it right back at him as quick as he could think of something. It was hilarious.

 

[MacDiddy]

You know Wyld.... Its unfortunate that you know too much... You gotta admit your delemma..

You being exposed to all our techniques, routines and alpha state , blah blah blah, stuff that even an intelligent guy may take alot of effort to master. And all his genuine effort is for nought.. zilch... when he uses it on you.. you could have missed out on the most genuine, charming and thoughtful guy ever...

all because you knew too much and got too smart about it.

 

[Wyldfire]

You know Wyld.... Its unfortunate that you know too much... You gotta admit your delemma..

You being exposed to all our techniques, routines and alpha state , blah blah blah, stuff that even an intelligent guy may take alot of effort to master. And all his genuine effort is for nought.. zilch... when he uses it on you.. you could have missed out on the most genuine, charming and thoughtful guy ever...

all because you knew too much and got too smart about it.

It never worked on me even before I found this site. I actually am the female version of a "natural" player or whatever you want to call it. I didn't tap into those abilities until I left my ex husband in 1994. I think that's part of the reason I decided to join this site and offer my input. I learned to harness and use those natural skills to make my LTRs better.