Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJ techniques depend on woman's age?

PDubb75

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Have you guys noticed certain techniques working better on women in different age brackets?

I have a couple plates in their early 20's, and being a ****y @sshole that ignores them half the night seems to work perfectly.

I recently met a 29 year old, divorced about 3 years ago. She still responds well to C+F, but she seems to respond even better when I call her cute, or text her, etc. This is the kind of stuff I've tried to get away from, but I've noticed her positive responses making me do some of them again.

Anyone else noticed this? Or am I treading into dangerous waters here?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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t00dumb

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you can get away with a lot of things for young women (late teens early 20s). the closer they are to 30 and up, from my experience are more insecure about themselves whether it's their age or body image, they're looking for guys to let them know they're still the hottest thing around but at the same time a bit mature and fun.

ignore the young women and they'll love you for it.

reaffirm the older women and they'll love you for it.
 

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It's because by age 29 women have jumped from bad boy to bad boy and are ready to "settle down" with whatever guy is willing to take them.

They are usually past their bad boy phase in their late 20's and above. But for younger girls they are in full gear when it comes to their bad boy obsession.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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