DJ Talk

[iMat]

Ok, this is a tiny dilemma (hope I spelt that correctly) that just popped. I bet it's simple, but bear with me please.

What kind of topics do you talk about on first dates/initial approaches?

I've heard people say just get friendly and talk about where they come from, who they are etc. but doesn't that take away from that "I knew you before from someplace" feeling?

Thanks

--iMat

 

[tactic]

you don't try to make one subject out of nowhere, you have to talk about whatever that flows,

so if you talked about how she went to go hang out with her friends you have alot of ways of making her subject go with the flow.

 

[iMat]

Thanks.

But for a ****ier approach, when you bust her balls, when should you smile a little to let her know you're playing around (when she tries messing around with you), and when should you put on that serious (my dog just died) face to keep her wondering?

--iMat

 

[tactic]

doing these things come to natural if you already know the fact that what you should do is right.

From the way how i learned how and when to smile and to show her that i was playing around is by learning from other people through observation. I observe how they do it and how they socialize with them. You need to know what to do at the right time. Alot, or maybe even, all the guys who know the ways of smiling and who does this right never messes up. They don't mess up because they don't think about what they do, they just do it naturally.

 

[DJ_Dork]

talk about anything, try to avoid the 'who are you' questions.

a girl who is interested will ask most of the questions.

 

[iMat]

Or is it better to just go at it quick, get the email/number, and try setting up a get-together, then get more in depth about stuff?

--iMat

 

[iMat]

Ok. I was at this public place, and there was this Ok HB6 sitting there, and I decided that practise would be good.

But before I could say anything, I just froze up, because I thought... after I said hi (which I found harder to imagine doing when in situation), what would I talk about?

I know you use situations, but let's say it't just two strangers in an empty space.

What kind of things can you say?

--iMat