"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ Style First Try- tips?

SamRi72

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This is about my 11th week of sarging and I have a girl I want to isolate that has been number closed. Today, I called her and forged some rapport. When she showed interest in a get together (which I had hinted in the close) I mentioned that I was going bowling at the block next saturday and that she was welcome to join me. She said she did not like bowling, but then mentioned her passion for photography.

After using some of Strauss' Eliciting Values technique (although not all of it and far from perfectly due to my lack of experience) I found some fun info about this passion: an IOI that she like taking photographs in places including the restroom and a DHV the fact that she had a passion and pursued it constantly. We talked some more and she mentioned some free days. I said we could meet up sometime later then and asked her to send me one of her pics before hanging up.

Here's my plan: my passion is social psychology (main reason I love the community) so I was thinking we could go to a public place and experiment on people and take pictures together. Is this a good idea or do any of you full-fledged DJs think there are much better things to do?

PS: I'm analyzing her to see if she is prom worthy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamRi72

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Here's my score from two months of sarging:
Number closes: 5
Kiss Closes: 0
F Closes: 0
Fun: a whole heck of a lot
 

The Shocker

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sounds like a VERY interesting and unique date. I say go for it. LOL...the only thing I'd be concerned about is being more interested in the social experiment and results than the girl herself...Stay focused.
 
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