"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Style First Try- tips?

SamRi72

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This is about my 11th week of sarging and I have a girl I want to isolate that has been number closed. Today, I called her and forged some rapport. When she showed interest in a get together (which I had hinted in the close) I mentioned that I was going bowling at the block next saturday and that she was welcome to join me. She said she did not like bowling, but then mentioned her passion for photography.

After using some of Strauss' Eliciting Values technique (although not all of it and far from perfectly due to my lack of experience) I found some fun info about this passion: an IOI that she like taking photographs in places including the restroom and a DHV the fact that she had a passion and pursued it constantly. We talked some more and she mentioned some free days. I said we could meet up sometime later then and asked her to send me one of her pics before hanging up.

Here's my plan: my passion is social psychology (main reason I love the community) so I was thinking we could go to a public place and experiment on people and take pictures together. Is this a good idea or do any of you full-fledged DJs think there are much better things to do?

PS: I'm analyzing her to see if she is prom worthy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SamRi72

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Here's my score from two months of sarging:
Number closes: 5
Kiss Closes: 0
F Closes: 0
Fun: a whole heck of a lot
 

The Shocker

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sounds like a VERY interesting and unique date. I say go for it. LOL...the only thing I'd be concerned about is being more interested in the social experiment and results than the girl herself...Stay focused.
 
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