You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Are you guys really that scared? You think a close is that hard?Originally posted by Soprano
is anyone else watching this episode? its about someone trying to pick up a girl who got murdered lol... they're talking about "neg hits" and "closes" and etc...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wow.. i was just wondering if anyone else saw it...Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Are you guys really that scared? You think a close is that hard?
A girl says I had sex with the guy, a guy says I had sex with her, some guy from CSI says he sex closed the girl, some afc says he kiss closed her. Seriously "whats a matter for you" with that?
A guy says neg hits on CSI, what did you call it before? Teasing? People around the world MIGHT just take his idea up on his offer, and you'll already know the science behind a "neg-hit" and the history, before anybody else did, use that to your advantage. I wouldn't say I would even bother though, trying to sound smart and talking neg-hits, kino, C+F in front of girls is getting old to me again, it's like they don't want to hear it. They want to to hear what they've been hearing their whole life, with just a little bit more fun involved. Start talking science to them, and they will call you a geek, start worrying that other people will get angry, they can do a search for "how to tease" on the internet and find a link to sosuave.com, than they can pop in here, and we'll have a brand new afc to deal with... is that what you are really afraid of? Another person crawling down the rabbit hole?
I am really confused, is this actually supposed to be a problem to you, more people understanding something you know about? Just means, you can be that much more unique, by pretending, or joking about neg-hitting.
How bout you bach neg-hits, and bash closing for a little while. Get a leg up, as the competition, see if you can tease us into convincing you that sleeping with us is actually a good idea and not a good idea. GAHD, another rant.
G'bye I go sleep and shut up now.
I never saw it. I want to now though, too bad I probably never will since I haven't watched TV for more than 5 minutes in ike 4 months.Originally posted by Soprano
wow.. i was just wondering if anyone else saw it...