"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don-Kong

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I've been here 5 minutes and I have witnessed idiotic posts and bull**** advice.
I have been emailed about my own content. I mean, we should be kind toward one another. We are a brotherhood. Men.

I see many posts about DJ's really going to work on the others. This in my view, is weak.

I get that many on here still haven't shaved yet, but humble the **** up!
Learn. Respect your fellow Don!

Jaysus. Some of you kids don't deserve the wisdom of the older Don's. Still running crazy in your pubic dilemma, gross.

Man up. It's disgusting. We are a community not a fighting faction. I'm a boxer so would love to fight you keyboard warriors for real but you'd get smashed believe.

Just chill man. Listen. Suck it up. I'm learning too at 35. But being an alpha male doesn't mean being an *******. Alphas are compassionate and caring but strong and wise.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VikingKing

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Don-Kong said:
I've been here 5 minutes and I have witnessed idiotic posts and bull**** advice.
I have been emailed about my own content. I mean, we should be kind toward one another. We are a brotherhood. Men.

I see many posts about DJ's really going to work on the others. This in my view, is weak.

I get that many on here still haven't shaved yet, but humble the **** up!
Learn. Respect your fellow Don!

Jaysus. Some of you kids don't deserve the wisdom of the older Don's. Still running crazy in your pubic dilemma, gross.

Man up. It's disgusting. We are a community not a fighting faction. I'm a boxer so would love to fight you keyboard warriors for real but you'd get smashed believe.

Just chill man. Listen. Suck it up. I'm learning too at 35. But being an alpha male doesn't mean being an *******. Alphas are compassionate and caring but strong and wise.
Yeah but. Men are naturally aggressive and competitive. This is healthy. Men don't listen, they do what they want and go there own way.

People are going to disagree with you. Maybe they will say somthing you find offensive too. Accept that. Agree to disagree.

Often, I don't get into debates. I believe what I believe, and stick to it 90% of the time. But i do take other opinions into consideration.

Regarding my pm, I only did that because I couldnt post again for some reason.

Women who have a lot of sexual partners in the past are not worth a serious relationship.

That's my belief and I will never, ever, ever change that.

Of course jaylan (gaylan) will disagree.

Dont be like that guy.
 

Father Joseph

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@Don-kong I agree with you. This forum is about helping each other in situations what Don Juans around the globe face. Especially if asked politely questions should be answered that way.
 

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This forum isn't a contest as well, or who has the most "greens" wins in a thread. Even newbies has a good input to share and some of them might be new here, but not in lessons in life.
I believe we can still be civilized people here even while debating.
 

JustOlder_!

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Quite honestly..no one listens to anyone. Most, just do their own thing regardless of what is said. Just a theory .....I think a person picks up different pieces and shapes them to their own belief system. I mean, who doesn't want to be number 1 in their own mind?
...Anyway, I enjoy the forum because it helps with the mindset- not the insight......for every guy thinking a certain way, there is a gal thinking another way. etc... its a possible shape of thinking to win whatever your trying to win.....I think what it comes down to is to understand what it takes to enjoy your 1 life. A task in of itself... A chick will never get you there nor will anyone else. Like the weekend - do I go drinking, fishing, biking or find another gal to f' or call the neighbor gal up who will spread like peanut butter...The dilimea of life. So if someone tells you off, learn to appreciate that your different and doing your own thing and skip worrying about being right...No one cares!!!! Find the nugget to fit your game and let it go. People are animals and not much else.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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