"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Readings

LeonSK

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There are so many books about alpha male, pickup, seduction out there. What are the books that you guys strongly recommend to read, besides DJ Bible?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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gravityeyelids

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if you're in college, Conquer Your Campus is not bad. Get the book of Pook. 48 Laws of Power, How to Become an Alpha Male (John Alexander), Mystery's Revelation

Be very careful with stuff like the Mystery method, etc. It has its moments, however, most guys focus far too much on all these clever lines and routines and rules. Some of that stuff can help you, but you're better off focusing on improving your body language, fitness, attitude, experience, wardrobe, etc. There is some "theoretical' stuff that is important to get into your system, but ultimately experience is the best tool. That being said, i've had times where i go out consistently and get shot down and no results, and end up feeling hopeless. In these moments it can be very helpful to read up on material, get some confidence,and educate yourself a bit.
 

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Find the book lists on Amazon that David DeAngelo recommends in his programs. That'll keep you busy for a while.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I like "God is a woman: Dating disasters" by Ian Coburn. It's one comedian's history of experiences with women, where he went wrong and what he learnt.

There are some good lessons there.

The Game by Neil Strauss is also well written. IMO it gives a fairly balanced opinion on what life was like in a house filled with wannabe PUA's, not the dream life that one might imagine.
 
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