"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Dj reaction to girl not calling back..

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So I get a missed call from my girlfriend (LTR, 11 months) and she jsut says shes at dinner and i basically hung up on her had to do something and called back when i was done. she left a message before i didnt hear saying maybe if i wanted to go over her house later, so i called and said if she wanted to hangout later to let me know if she goes home..and she siad she is going home which means she could hangout..but she goes ill call u when im home (she was 5 min away from home) and i never got that call

now for a hour or so i was in a place where reception isnt great but the REAL QUESTION IS:

How does a dj react to his gf not calling back?
1) forget it, unless it becomes a normal thing..whatever
2) say somtin, dont tkae crap
3) say somtin in a joking/unserious way
4) other
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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a DJ figures out how to use punctuation, and an order of words that make sence, so other DJ's can understand his story....talk about garbled bro...

anway.. you've been with this girl for 11 months, you know her well, whats your gut feeling on this one? why do you think she didnt call you back? and is that an acceptable reason?
 
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shark said:
So I get a missed call from my girlfriend (LTR, 11 months) and she jsut says shes at dinner and i basically hung up on her had to do something and called back when i was done. she left a message before i didnt hear saying maybe if i wanted to go over her house later, so i called and said if she wanted to hangout later to let me know if she goes home..and she siad she is going home which means she could hangout..but she goes ill call u when im home (she was 5 min away from home) and i never got that call
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:confused: So she said that you said that she was taking a dump in 5 minutes and Robocop was the late movie yeah?


Too much worry and self kino.
 
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Dont worry about it...

If i didnt know any better i would think i was replying to a WOMAN.
 
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Don't get upset. Talk to her. Calmly make her understand that you're a man, and as a man, you expect and demand to be treated with absolute respect. Telling you to expect a call and not calling is VERY disrespectful. If she doesn't understand, give her two days and start looking for a chick who won't waste your time like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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huh? If it is truly an LTR this was a disrespect issue. Combination gut instinct and common sense. Is your spidey sense tingling? Next we need a bit more info to dive into common sense. What time was it? Was she with her family out to dinner or with someone else? If with family it could have got later and she forgot. If not then I see a bad moon a rising...

Krassus has the right medicine bag on this
 
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