I agree with Survivor but from a woman's pov...
1.) She is either trying to do the Rules.. All you men should read that book. DOn't buy it just spend 2 minutes.. reading it. I think it's crap ..soooooo obvious....but you will see her cards right away.. My Dj's response for this might be, " Oh, okay sweetie. No worry, perhaps another nightthen. Get off the phone. SHort and sweet. Offer no counter and Next her. She didn't forget. A woman NEVER ever forgets when or what time or day a man asks her out. Trust me. Even if you are a total Loser.. they remember...They are either playing games or just not all that interested or acting like they aren't and trying to be a challenge. LOL....Don't fall for it. But don't let it throw your game off. ANd whatever you do don't let on that you are the slightest bit angry or upset.. Indifferent, mysterious, busy.. is key. You have lots of other girls in the wings. But I would NOT say you can find someone else to go.. That sounds too defensive. Let her wonder.. Key for a DJ
2.) Darn... what was number two.. Oh yeah.. Well, first.. On a first date if any man said come to my house.. I would be put off. Be the man, pick her up and/or meet her somewhere. For drinks. Not dinner. If all goes well then sure grab a bite to eat. But keep the first date casual and on YOUR terms NOT hers... Again, be a man.
3.) Well, depending on how well things were going.. you could meet up with her but then that is giving her control and you are the man.. too early to be meeting her friends for pete;s sake. You don't even know yet if she deserves a second or third date.. I would say, "Gee sounds fun sweetie, but I really need to get going. It's been fun. We'll talk soon." Don't mention a time and chances are she will be the one calling you in a few days. If you go with her it is too AFC too soon...You shouldn't be meeting her friends until you are at least exclusive if that. Or at least not until you banged her
Not sure if I repeated anything on previous, posts. Did not read everyone but most of you guys get an A in my book. The key is to take everything in stride.. She is not the ONE until she earns it.
So, how did I do.. Nevermind, don't answer that
Good luck!
1.) She is either trying to do the Rules.. All you men should read that book. DOn't buy it just spend 2 minutes.. reading it. I think it's crap ..soooooo obvious....but you will see her cards right away.. My Dj's response for this might be, " Oh, okay sweetie. No worry, perhaps another nightthen. Get off the phone. SHort and sweet. Offer no counter and Next her. She didn't forget. A woman NEVER ever forgets when or what time or day a man asks her out. Trust me. Even if you are a total Loser.. they remember...They are either playing games or just not all that interested or acting like they aren't and trying to be a challenge. LOL....Don't fall for it. But don't let it throw your game off. ANd whatever you do don't let on that you are the slightest bit angry or upset.. Indifferent, mysterious, busy.. is key. You have lots of other girls in the wings. But I would NOT say you can find someone else to go.. That sounds too defensive. Let her wonder.. Key for a DJ
2.) Darn... what was number two.. Oh yeah.. Well, first.. On a first date if any man said come to my house.. I would be put off. Be the man, pick her up and/or meet her somewhere. For drinks. Not dinner. If all goes well then sure grab a bite to eat. But keep the first date casual and on YOUR terms NOT hers... Again, be a man.
3.) Well, depending on how well things were going.. you could meet up with her but then that is giving her control and you are the man.. too early to be meeting her friends for pete;s sake. You don't even know yet if she deserves a second or third date.. I would say, "Gee sounds fun sweetie, but I really need to get going. It's been fun. We'll talk soon." Don't mention a time and chances are she will be the one calling you in a few days. If you go with her it is too AFC too soon...You shouldn't be meeting her friends until you are at least exclusive if that. Or at least not until you banged her
Not sure if I repeated anything on previous, posts. Did not read everyone but most of you guys get an A in my book. The key is to take everything in stride.. She is not the ONE until she earns it.
So, how did I do.. Nevermind, don't answer that
Good luck!